If u r in love with this guy..who has given u upteen chances to change ur behaviour coz u r bad tempered...n u got pregnant one day coz there was no protection and u told him it's save to Not wear protection on that day.. and he wants u to abort it...how do u deal with this?
2006-10-30 18:41:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as a guy, I would leave you if you had the baby. You took advantage of him.
2006-10-30 18:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by outbaksean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get rid of this guy. But dont abort it if you dont want it give it up for adoption. I went through abortion. it seems like a quick answer. But here I am 36 years later still carring the mental scars. Trust me it is a feeling you really dont want to go through. This baby has a right to live. Maybe you dont have a place in your life for it right now, but a lot of people cant have children and to them this would be a blessing. Think long and hard aabout this. good luck.
2006-10-30 18:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep da baby and loose him cause he got some problems that needed 2 be work out and u should keep him 2 da curb and get him replace and get with someone esle that wants u and ur baby and tell him its is over with u and him and tell him why and tell him da reason why u dont want him and if he does not understand that he is not da one 4 u good luck on ur baby and good luck with ur new man,
2006-10-30 18:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on everyone's situation. wihtout marriage carrying will cause the baby to have no father at all best speak to him about marriage if u really want to keep the baby or abort it.
2006-10-30 18:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has sent you a blessing and an extension of love that baby is the reflection of love, be brave, have courage and have the baby this baby could be your company forever so you will never feel alone.
2006-10-30 18:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by mansongirl17us 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on you, if you want it keep it, yes he is the father, but you have to take care of it and carry it.
So if you want the child, break it off and raise the child.
2006-10-30 18:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever else you do, I think it's tiime for you to start telling the truth! How can you love someone you;re lying to?
2006-10-30 18:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Switch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I would not abort it-but I might get rid of him.
2006-10-30 18:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue the pregnancy.. it is a blessing.. you should be responsible of your act.. there is no time to blame each other.. neither blame the baby
2006-10-30 18:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by `red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't abort it. Aborting is considered murder.
2006-10-30 18:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by freakazoid17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋