i regret making mistakes and mine well you decide all i did was sleep wid tristan my m8 he was 17 wha would u have done as a parent?????
2006-10-30 18:41:36 · 12 answers · asked by kitty kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i wouldn't kick him out...just scold him to use protection and all...
2006-10-30 18:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Riot! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have kicked you out. I would've talked to you about being way too young, but I also would've made sure you were on the pill, and left the way open for you to come talk at any time that you needed to. Are you staying someplace safe? Is there anyway you can go to a counselor at school, or a pastor. You may have to go through Child Protective Services, as you are a minor and cannot be on your own, and your mother could get into trouble for that. I hope that you are safe, and secure, and that things get better for you soon.
Good Luck
2006-10-31 06:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a parent kicks out their child, then obviously they have very little love and respect for the child, and were probably looking for a reason to get rid of the child. If I ever have children, I would never do that to them. And how was that a mistake? Because they kicked you out? How is it that someone other than yourself should be able to choose who you sleep with?
2006-10-30 18:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by sangheilizim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you would probably not see the light of day for a long time. Hopefully you wouldn't have gotten pregnant, b/c I would make sure you understood what it means to be a parent. I would not be solely responsible for the baby. But no, I wouldn't have kicked you out, just been disappointed that you didn't have better judgment and waited.
2006-10-30 18:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang on... is this the whole story? Have you been a non-stop grief bringer to your parents? Not that I agree with kicking someone that young out, but maybe they are tired of you disrespecting their home and rules. If I were your mother I would be more concerned about your sexual safety and have you down the doctors and not on the streets.
2006-10-31 16:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to kick u out is too much, because no matter what u did or u'll do they are still your parents and they are still responsible for u.........i would love my son even if he would kill smone(of course i wont cover him, but no matter what a son is still a son)........of course u are too young(if u are 14 years old) to sleep with smone, but what your parents did in my opinion is not the right thing........anyway u should go and talk with them even ask them to forgive u (altho i don;t think is anything to forgive coz is not a sin what u did), and try to understand why they did what they did and how can the things go back as they were without compromise your relation with them or Tristan.
2006-10-30 18:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by black_cat_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents kicked you out at the age of 14 knowing that u couldnt support your self then they really must not care about. what i would do is never go back
2006-10-30 18:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe have them live with someone else, but no, unless they assist their child in finding somewhere else to live, there is no reason they should kick them out.
2006-10-30 18:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by FireKracker187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know for sure what I would have done but I would not have kicked you out.
2006-10-30 19:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if all you did was "sleep" with Tristan, then no harm done, forgive and forget...
2006-10-30 18:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋