What can I possibly to do...today I had to be in court at 9am to contest a proposed judgment motioned by my ex's attorney. I also had to take my son to the dentist at 11am. I had asked my ex last wed. to drop our son off at my house today in the morning since the kids were with my ex this weekend. My ex never responded. So I had to go to pick our son up at school at 7:40am and then feed him cuz dad has no time. I live in the same town as the school and ex lives 25 min. away. So I was 20 min. late to court and find that the judge signed the judgment even though I had filed a declaration opposing it just cuz I was late. It didn't matter that I had to bring our son with me and it was partly my ex's fault that I was late. Then to make matters worse when the school called ex about son missing school, ex told the school he had no idea where son was. I am very frustrated!!!!! and very angry. What can I do to relieve the stress?
2006-10-30 18:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by cecimad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hire a lawyer, ask for a hearing re guarding the judgment,and ask the lawyer what action to take on the ex doing these things. make a written statement to give to the school and keep a copy for you. Your ex is deliberately interfering with your custodial rights, Which your lawyer can file petitions in your behalf to make him stop doing these things or he might have to pay a fine! or have supervised visitation to ensure your child is returned home on time for school etc.
2006-10-30 19:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can t be responsible with the kids file custody and get your child away from him but first tell him that he s need to be more reponsible tell him that if he can t help you take care of the kids file for divorce and take your kids with you if he get abusive with you get a order of protection and leave the house.
2006-10-30 19:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your ex is an a $$ too (so is mine). Not feeding his son to make you late. Your ex either needs to have the kids home Sunday night or drive them to school himself... Sounds like he would purpossely be late every school day just because he can and it makes you look bad.
good luck
2006-10-30 19:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have been late for the court appointment no matter what your excuse was so you have to now live with that error on your part. It just has to be worked out between the two of you.. Is he paying support? If not, you should take him to court for that.. It may result in your getting a good lawyer in order to get just that.
2006-10-30 19:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Two sides to every story and we are hearing yours. Would be interesting to hear what he would say. Sounds like you wind him up and he you. Just as well you not together anymore. When you need to arrange things, be precise and factual. and keep talk to a minimum.
2016-05-22 14:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is part of the game, when you are entangled in a marriage related case with your ex-husband. I think you must take it at your stride.
2006-10-30 19:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restainoder oh ur ex and tell da judge everything and dont leave nothing out.
2006-10-30 19:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand your feelings.dont think about the PAST.try to avoid these things not to happen in the future.plan everything perfectly.god bles you.
2006-10-30 19:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. This time will also pass and you will have a comfortable life.
2006-10-30 20:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't rely on him anymore. He is not a responsible father.
2006-10-30 19:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋