Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

when i met him he was separated from his wife, we got together and he stayed with me for little while , things change and we had a big argument, i did not put him out but i think he knew i wanted him to leave . and he went back to stay with his wife . he is unhappy there and he wants to move back in with me . I told him no not until he gets a divorce, then he can move back in with me . He says finacially he cannot move into his own apartment because of past credit issues and he was going to move into a hotel and stay their for awhile but now he says it is to expensive to pay 155 wk . We talked last night and i told him i am tired of the whole thing, because he does not seems to want the divorce. I want to end the relationship. He said, i can move in with u and we can work out the divorce together , I said no u will not stay wth me until the divorce . he got mad and agreed to end it all , and we can work something out with our son, he hs four other kids. did i make the wrong decison

2006-10-30 23:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by easygoingfunlovingfemale 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I overheard one of my aunts co-workers who asked about her boyfriend, and she said something about him and said "he" then quickly said "she".

Why won't she tell me she's dating someone? I tell her all the time, when I'm going on a date, so why is she keeping all this from me?

Is this really a big deal?

2006-10-30 23:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by Armblast 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 23:21:33 · 26 answers · asked by Ben H 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex left me when I was pregnant, he didn't want the baby....now the baby is 17 months old....he hasn't bothered with him or even acknowledged him (by his choice not mine) and all of a sudden now he wants to get together and be a family....
Should I A - Go with him so my child will have his father
B - Tell him to go to hell
I told him he doesn't need me to be in his childs life and he said, it is either the both of us or nothing....
Help any advice...Do I love him, yes and no I love then man he use to be, but not the man who doesn't love my child who is the light of my life.....ADVICE

2006-10-30 23:20:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

give me some information.

2006-10-30 23:17:01 · 11 answers · asked by Dighi_143 2 in Singles & Dating

He KNOWS how important it is to me,but doesn't seem to care! It eally makes me feel depressed...What should I do? DOn't say divorce because I don't believe in it.

2006-10-30 23:16:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 23:13:52 · 39 answers · asked by Rachel J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 23:13:51 · 4 answers · asked by sundar p 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess I am just too naieve. I'm not really sure just what the term means (yes, I am over 19 - just lived a very sheltered life up until recently). .....

So,.... was it supposed to be a turn-on for me,..... for him...... was it supposed to get him off,..... was it supposed to actually involve ..."the act"?

My mind is just crazy trying to sort this out, and I need to know in case there is a next time. (I would like to get to know him better - he's drop-dead gorgeous)

2006-10-30 23:12:43 · 11 answers · asked by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 in Singles & Dating

I look at my friends,then i look at me.
without my friends where would i be?
My friends,my sisters,my shadow,my world.
Where would i be without my girls?
Tears,giggles,smiles and laughs,late nite calls n cute photographs.
I'll be there 4 u till the day of my death.
Best girlies 4ever,till my very last breath!!

2006-10-30 23:12:22 · 10 answers · asked by T - C - B 3 in Friends

I AM VERY CLOSE TO MY PARENTS ESPECIALLY MY MUM (SHE IS MY BEST MATE) AND RECENTLY SHE WAS SAYING THAT WHICHEVER OF THEM GO FIRST THE OTHER WILL KEEP THE ASHES UNTIL THEY GO THEN THEY WANT THEM PUT TOGETHER AND I WALL THEN HAVE THEM.I HAVE RECENTLY DECIDED I WANT TO HAVE A PIECE OF JEWELLERY MADE OUT OF THEIR ASHES!!! DOES ANY BODY KNOW HOW MUCH IT WOULD ROUGHLY COST AND IF ALL OR MOST JEWELERS DO THIS?

2006-10-30 23:11:08 · 20 answers · asked by tash 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 23:07:09 · 14 answers · asked by angelofhell 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing a girl for a while. In the beginning we were not going to get serious and we both agreed to have an open relationship. Although I had met a girl on more than one occassion it never went any further than a kiss. She has told me that she has slept with someone on more than one occassion. When I first found out it didn't bother me. But now we are getting more serious about each other, it has become an issue for me. I have quite a bad trust issue, but that's a different story. I've tried to talk to her and investigate what happened, but she doesn't want to talk about it. I stormed off on her. To make matters worse, she is very stubborn. She has now left her phone at home for the week, because she doesn't want to be upset all week. She has been unfaithfull to boyfriends before, sometimes seeing more than one guy. Also she got an offer to be with a guy an hour after she met me, but she said she couldn't do it cause her friend said she liked him.
Can I trust her?

2006-10-30 23:04:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anthon 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy, online, just a week back. But we have perpertually been on the phone, sharing just about anything and everything with each other. We met for the first time and it was simply gr8!! However, just yesterday I told him that I really like him a lot. We used to flirt, mostly him. But, now I think I have ruined everything by letting him know about my feelings. What do I do?

2006-10-30 23:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by answer_me 1 in Singles & Dating

A close female friend (who is stunning,just great) has asked you to visit them in Dubai for 5 days. The ticket costs £300. You have a history with this friend(both used to fancy each other), of when together you would get very close together, occasionly kiss and cuddle. This usually happens when you go out with them alone. You nearly became a couple, but held back.The female friend is single.

Problem is that you have a girlfriend who has reservations about you going and also wants you to spend New Years with her and the ticket also costs £300 to visit her. You can only afford to spend £300 once.

What would you do? Would you still go, even if your girlfriend says its fine?

This is not me-its a friend who's got this dilema.

2006-10-30 23:04:01 · 27 answers · asked by roadtripman90 1 in Singles & Dating

am looking for a song to walk down the asle my friend thinks it called their is a season for all things time it on loads of films any one av any ideas plzzzzzzzzzzzz

2006-10-30 23:03:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-30 23:01:57 · 5 answers · asked by dermotsuks 3 in Weddings

two chldren girl 14 boy 11 with severe learning probs...i now drink too much and smoke too much not in front of the kids but how can i stop this because if i carry on they wont have a dad either..im so lonley

2006-10-30 22:57:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-30 22:54:49 · 10 answers · asked by d.j. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 22:53:36 · 19 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Our anniversary is coming up and my boyfriend is visiting to celebrate. I wanted to make it something special. Any tips for a romantic stay at home type thing? Please remember, I don't have very much money to spend.

2006-10-30 22:52:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend she is my neihbourhood and she is realy lovin me a lot .but my way of lookin is only friendship how to solve this issue

2006-10-30 22:51:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's my bestest best friend in the world.
He's started to talk back to me, not talk to me, not have the time for me, and is just really misbehaving and it really hurts me...but since he doesnt have the time to talk to him...i cant say anything. I dont know what to do

2006-10-30 22:50:39 · 6 answers · asked by madhuridixit 1 in Friends

marriage vows are taken as a joke now days and divorce is so normal why is that? you see it all around us.....why get hitched if your not going to honor your vows? i mean i understand adultery, domestic violence and things of that nature but when you dont have a valid reason then what????

2006-10-30 22:50:05 · 15 answers · asked by MR.E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 22:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i need to know what it would be any think taht comesing ur head

the first word starts with B and second word starts with P i dot know and it going to be a xmax presnit that my mates sister is getting

its not a sex toy or anythink to do with sex it not a pet, dose not have wheels or legs not a person might be for someting to do with the body like clothes not for girls or girls dont need or like and teenages dont like it it more like for old men have no clue the person who helps me gets 10 points or more ansers gets 10 points

its not mine it my mates that his sister is getting him

it comes in a pack of 3 or 4

2006-10-30 22:46:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 22:45:37 · 23 answers · asked by sumith i 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 22:45:12 · 7 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it ok if i went ahead and communicated with my soul mate by texting and calling him thou i know it his weakness to communicate and a busy person? When i ask him if its nagging he says no it absolutly ok and promises to call somes times and does call back, some times he doesn't but rearly.

Do you think i should act as he's doing or calling and texting him wont make our relationship stronger? I've tried acting the way he does and he would definatly call me when he would love to see me, i also feel he's too jealousy in that he calls at funny hour late in the night and insists he wants a Sh*g then.

He's the Kind who is so reserved and realy expreses himself, we've dated for nine month now,he's 30years and am 27years!

do you think he loves me or am just wasting my time with him? whenever i think of leaving him he surfaces and i've always failed to say no OR its over hun.. i love him madly,SHOULD I KEEP IN TOUCH DESPITE, WHAT DO YOU THINK!.

thanks all of you in advance.

2006-10-30 22:42:17 · 14 answers · asked by kiss me. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 22:42:16 · 9 answers · asked by bobbythompson 2 in Marriage & Divorce