I have a friend she is my neihbourhood and she is realy lovin me a lot .but my way of lookin is only friendship how to solve this issue
2006-10-30 22:51:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, dont hurt her by directly telling her,...tell her indirectly like start talking to her bout love n frnship n give diffrence between them then give an exaple of ur relationship n tell her in a diffrent manner as she may realise the fact but not that u r doing the talk purposefully just go ahead n do it! u will be safe like this!
2006-10-31 21:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by catty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say she is your FRIEND... honestly, there really is no easy way to break somebody's heart...it's just gonna hurt one way or another... you just have to tell her the TRUTH... don't show her that you only feel friendship by passing by her with another lady in your arms or simply rejecting or ignorring her.... that's not a nice gesture especially from a friend like you whom I believe she trust, too.... it maybe hard on her part to accept it, but it will sink in her sooner or later and she will really understand since she is your friend... and then you'll be glad too since you have finally freed yourself with the truth.. this is actually a WIN-WIN situation...
2006-10-30 23:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY I KNOW ITS TOO BAD IF U KNOW SOME BODY AND SHE STARTS LIKING U BUT SWEETHEART U CANNOT GET TRUE LOVE AGAIN IN UR LIFE MAY BE THATS WHAT I THINK IF SHE IS NOT TOO UGLY LOOKING GO AHEAD AND TRY LIKING HER MAY BE SHE IS THE ONE MADE FOR U AND U BOTH CAN FIND UR TRUE LOVE AND A LIFE PARTENER IN EACH OTHER AND EVEN AFTER TRYING U DONT LIKE HER JUST SIMPLY TELL HER THAT U HAVE ALWAYS SEEN HER LIKE A GOOD FRIEND AND NOTHING ELSE AND WUOLD ALWAYS LIKE TO BE HIS FRIEND AND NEVER LOOSE HER FRIENDSHIP MAY BE SHE WOULD UNDERSTAND AND THINGS WOULD BECOME ALRIGHT IN UR LIFE.
2006-10-31 00:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by suman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and that i comprehend you needed chick suggestion, yet m a nurse and education to be a counselor and that i cant stand by technique of. i recommend you seek for treatment or some type of help, im not being rude in basic terms straightforward. the way you communicate you sound as if issues are not resolved on your want some one receives damage, and typically like this the guy damage is the only you want. its your sister theirs relations limitations there. no moral human being would furnish you with suggestion to absolutely pursue this. its not completely your fault your like this, you mustn't of been drowsing interior an same mattress at that age yet heavily get some help till now you do something you experience sorry about. for sure your sister is chuffed with this different guy or she does not be with him. the suitable component you are able to do is experience free for her. if someone quite cares for someone else all they might want to wish is happiness for the different human being. please get some help.
2016-12-05 09:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by mento 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better you may openly talk with her.Because it is her life.As a relative you are having some care about her.I think she has some confident on you .so you are the responsibility to make her life good Now,i am asking you a questing....If you are the girl means what you have done.Think it .now you feel that you itself having answer.anyway take a better decision.when you feel this answer is some what better you give me some points
2006-10-30 23:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by vijay_dhum143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know it's really hard to break some girlz heart but u got to do it if u have to ,so before it's too late tell her that u looking her as a friend cuz if u don't tell her now she is going to get her hopes up which is gonna cause u more trouble ok!1 good luck dude
2006-10-30 22:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by AG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep assuming things based on looks like in movies, if you have the integrity and internal strenght go ahead and speak to her, maybe you are missing a good firend like her
2006-10-30 22:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by poloneck20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her my email id, and tell her that he is the best man in the world. After one week, you will find that she doesn't believe on love anymore.
Actually its better if you dont say her anything. Girls are normally clever. She will undesrtand that you dont love her.
And congrats that some girl loves you.
2006-10-30 23:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her directly that u dont have any such feelings 2wards her and u were considering her as a close friend...she will surely understand!! All the Best :)
2006-10-30 23:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by Harish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to face the truth than to escape. If you are not interested to have a relationship then it is better speak to her personally and convince her than to linger the issue and creating unwanted problems.
2006-10-30 22:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by nanu T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋