I met this guy, online, just a week back. But we have perpertually been on the phone, sharing just about anything and everything with each other. We met for the first time and it was simply gr8!! However, just yesterday I told him that I really like him a lot. We used to flirt, mostly him. But, now I think I have ruined everything by letting him know about my feelings. What do I do?
2006-10-30 23:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by answer_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You met a guy once and immediately concluded that he is nice and not only that, telling im you like him! You were rather too forward in your decisions and like you said, you have ruined it because even if he pretend to be serious with you, he won't respect you since he got you kind of so cheap. My advice to you is to withdraw a little and see what step he takes.
2006-10-30 23:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have met in person, and you are getting vibes that he doesn't like you as much as you hoped he would, then I would play it cool.
Don't come on to him. If you do, he may pull away more. If he has any interest in you, let him come to you.
People can have great times online as well as on the phone, but sometimes when you meet in person, the attraction just isn't there, as much as you would like.
Try not to take it personal, as every individual is different. Some people like extroverts; some prefer introverts; some like short people; some prefer tall people; some like blondes; some prefer brunettes, etc. Try your best to get it out of your head -- every single guy cannot be attracted to you. That is what makes the world go around!
If he does in fact have an interest, let him show it; he will sooner or later.
In the meantime, I'd move on, and try to get him out of your head.
Good luck!
2006-10-31 08:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by peekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 pts
2006-10-31 07:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Nice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you didn't ruin anything, if he doesnt like you back, just dump him and fine someone that does
2006-10-31 07:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry 2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yes its ok to say you like him just dont say you love him or that will freak him out and u will never see him again.
2006-10-31 07:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be yourself and trust your instincts
2006-10-31 07:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course!h
2006-10-31 07:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by the golden goose 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋