well today I asked him "so watz going on between us.. " like I asked him before were this rel. was goign and he said he didt know.. and he woudlnt give me a reason.. well when I asked him he said idk right now... so i said back .. how do u not know.. and he said well I have feelings for u but I still have feelings for my x gf....so .. yeah
and today I pretty much spent the whole day with him ... we have so much fun together.. liek we play pool for like 3 hours , take about random suff... idk
Im not sure waht to do now.. because do I really want to wait aroudn for him to basically choose which one he is going to be with ... and he is going to madison and then home.. so then the whole weekend Im going to be thinking about what he is doing because I dotn trust him ...
please help ..
2006-10-30 18:21:53 · 6 answers · asked by iceskatingteri06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The upside is he respects you enough to be straight with you about he feels. The downside is he is not ready to choose between you and his ex. If you can handle postponing "defining your relationship" for a few months and see where it goes and see how you both feel" but make it clear that is he is free to see other people, so are you, then do so, it might work out for the best. If you need an answer now, he has already given you one in that he is not ready and it is time to move on.
2006-10-30 18:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why would you want to be 2nd best? If he is not willing to commit to you because he has feelings for his ex, then he is just with you until the ex decides she wants him back, well, he's hoping she will. So it's cool to be his friend and hang out, but any more than that and he's using you. You need to tell him no when he wants anything more than that and have some self respect. When he makes up his mind and chooses you, then he can have the rest of you. But, I'd dump him and find someone else...why be in a relationship that is so complicated...it should be fun and care free...not untrustworthy.
2006-10-31 02:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by belleebuttons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. If it was meant to be he wouldn't even be considering the ex. Enjoy your life and stop worrying about him. Find someone you can trust and who wants to be with you and only you.
2006-10-31 02:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by Alessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone you can't trust?Don't you know when your getting played?Move on.
2006-10-31 02:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on to the next. you need trust.
2006-10-31 02:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Bridget G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone and get with someone esle and tell his that is over with yall
2006-10-31 02:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋