I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and love him with all my heart. He is very sweet, showers me with time, and I'm happy with him. Yet, he cheated on me with a crack addicted stripper while I was sick, in his bed. I then found out he cheated on me with men. He's been downloading devient porn on my computer, too, and he lies about it. He continues to lie. I realize now, he has a serious problem--a sexual addiction, which he's had for years, and he kept hidden from me during the time I grew to love him. Now I am faced with the truth, and it's SO hard to trust him. I recently found he's been sending messages to girls online, telling them how hot they are. This triggered me to feel a lack of trust again. I told him that I needed him to get help for his addiction, or I couldn't be in the relationship. I've seen some improvement, but the behaviors continue. I love him, and want him to get help--I really love the person I have come to know...but not the addict. Should I stay or go?
2006-10-30
17:26:47
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