Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

My ex and I were together for 4 yrs. We were building our dream house and staying with my parents until the house was finished. I was going to propose to her on a secret holiday i booked for us at xmas, and i just bought her a new Audi that she wanted. I love her so much and would do anything for her. A couple of days ago she packed her things and left because my dad put our dog on a lead while he was cleaning outside. She went off her head and took the dog and she just started saying that she hates me and doesn't love me anymore. But that morning everything was fine - we were joking around laughing etc, and just out of the blue she does this.
What should i do??
Do i fight for her or let her go??
Maybe she has other issues??
Please i need all the advise i can get.

2006-10-30 16:48:03 · 21 answers · asked by Justaguy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a Guy who I have had a 5 yr, Ironically we're 5 yrs apart(21 & 26)relationship with. we have fell in and out of love repeatedly over the years and still can't seem to leave each other alone. about 2 yrs ago he told me about a child he didn't know he had, and that the child's mother had just informed him. He constantly Badgers me with "My Baby Mama" this and "My Baby Mama" that. whom which i have never met. and that he and his child's mother are still good friends and he loves her, then turns around and say he wanted me to have his child also. and he told me this baby's name was one name, then 2 yrs later told me something different?? he use to tell me how badly he wanted a child and then out of nowhere she appeared, I just want advice on whether or not I should stay in this relationship, seriously I'm considering letting it go, I Love Him and he Loves me very Much but it's like he uses his child and previous girlfriend to keep me in line and make me sad...What should I do?

2006-10-30 16:47:17 · 23 answers · asked by quiet_diamond27 1 in Singles & Dating

or would you keep it all for yourself?

2006-10-30 16:46:25 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she said she would never do that and now shes thinking about it, what should i do???

2006-10-30 16:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have simple question for guys. Is there any reason why when BF said “I will call you later tonight, will you be available?” and he simply did not do often now? Is that because he thinks I keep saying “that’s OK darling” previously? What is going on in his mind?? I believe that he is simply tired today, but when it comes to GF, still it is OK for not to call GF?

2006-10-30 16:45:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 16:45:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's married to my brother in law , She completely different before and after she got married, she's so touchy as she's so easy to get angry to everyone especially maids. She thinks my mom in law likes me better than her, altough I never offend her in any ways.

2006-10-30 16:44:27 · 12 answers · asked by pinkshirt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do i find out if he feels the same about me?

2006-10-30 16:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by Sara M 2 in Singles & Dating

Did any of you get married because that's what you thought you wanted, only to discover that getting married was the easy part, having a marriage is the hard part? And if so, how have you handled it?

2006-10-30 16:43:43 · 6 answers · asked by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 16:43:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we ar't getting along very well and he keeps saying he is leaving but never does. he says he loves me but can't stand me. he says that i throw such a fit not wanting him to leave he stays cause he fells bad. if he wants to go why won't he just leave or is he playing mind games. anything i do is never good enough for him but don't get me wrong i have a really bad temper to

2006-10-30 16:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by butter 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married to a woman that I no longer love. She has a son with another man, who has not been around since the pregnancy. I have been providing for this child for over a year and I consider him my son. I want to get a divorce from my wife, but I don't know if my son will be taken care of if I am not around.I want to know if there is any way I could gain visitation rights if I agree to pay child support or if there is any other way for me to still see my son if I do get a divorce.

2006-10-30 16:42:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do if you met a girl, went on a date with her, and then she told you she got divorced a few months ago and the husband was abusive? She seemed very well put together, strong, has put it in the past, and looked at the good things in life. Would it freak you out?

2006-10-30 16:41:45 · 19 answers · asked by freedove06 3 in Singles & Dating

This was my first time going over my friends house and shes my only friend so i havent been out to houses in a long time and i stayed from 3:30pm to 12:00am and her family was still awake but my mom said thats so embarrasing why didnt you call to come home and I said i didnt know they would be mad that i stayed there because its my first time in years and they didnt look mad what do you guys think if i stayed at your house that long would you be mad and cant wait to i leave

2006-10-30 16:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She has me wrapped around her little finger,
And I'm not allowed to talk back to her,
I have to do EVERYTHING she tells me to do.
What can I do?

2006-10-30 16:40:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 16:39:34 · 5 answers · asked by Terri ???? 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you just met a girl,went on a date with her, and she told you she got a divorce a few months ago and the guy was abusive. She seemed very well put together,strong, has put it behind her, and looked at the good things in life. Would that freak you out?

2006-10-30 16:39:25 · 9 answers · asked by freedove06 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i lik the guy and hes really good lookin but i havnt even said two words to him he has talked about me in a good way to one of my friends but he never makes a move is he just shy? there was a perfect opportunity for him to say sumthin to me today but he still didnt i dont want to be the first one to make a move because i wouldnt no what to say

2006-10-30 16:39:02 · 14 answers · asked by AtheniaB 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this habbit of unexpectedly getting the doors for women. I'm in college, and if i see a girl behind me in the reflections of the door, i open and let her go buy. They usually go, "aw, thank you." are they surprised that i noticed them, or just the fact that i open doors for people. i'm not as lame as i sound, just very curious

2006-10-30 16:38:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a chick insists that you love her
yet when u say that u do (pretend) they say eww and ****.

yet when you say you dont, they insist that u do love them lol

does it mean they really hate u or do they actually like u ?????


plaz i am choosing best answer so 10p[oints up 4 graps

cheers

2006-10-30 16:37:31 · 3 answers · asked by lolcuz212 3 in Friends

what the girls feel when the love ones propose married to her???

2006-10-30 16:36:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 16:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating

and i am just so jealous i get upset when he leaves for work or late coming home.if a girl talks to him i get mad how can i stop being so jealopus and why am i jealous

2006-10-30 16:36:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it wrong for a husband and wife to invite someone else into their bedroom for just a night? How do you respond to your close friend about a soon to be mistake? or is it not a mistake they are making?

2006-10-30 16:35:22 · 18 answers · asked by navyprincess3476 1 in Marriage & Divorce

exciting.....................

2006-10-30 16:33:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and the wife were at dinner with some friends and my wife asked if she could get a diet coke. I told her not tonight. Well, my friend's wife who must be some feminist started to question me on it. I told her it was because I didn't want her to have all that sugar tonight and I had already let her get a two liter the week before at the store. She was saying I should let her get whatever she wanted. I just ignored her and changed the subject. What a crazy broad, right? I mean a guy has to protect his woman and that is why I have all the debit cards and checks and I'll give her cash if she really needs to get some things like useful groceries or gas money. Men have to look out for there women or else they can overspend and harm their own bodies.

2006-10-30 16:33:11 · 35 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For instance, if she says she speaks French, Russian ( i know what greek means)?

2006-10-30 16:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by Befuddle_by_taxes 1 in Singles & Dating

Hiee. I am married since almost 4yrs now. My husband is an educated man with a good job. So am I.I have akid of 2.6 yrs. Normally my husband is ok with me. But when he loses temper he is violent. He abuses me and also hits me when worse.I have been forgiving him everytime.This time I told his mom coz he hit me too badly, although he realised it. But I had to tell his mom. HIs mom got angry at him and made him understand he shudnt be doing it. He got wild at me again as to why I told his mom all this. Today morning we again fought i nfront of my kid. My parents are coming to pick me to their city which is 15 hours journey from mine. I dont know whether I shud go with them or not?Coz if I go, i wud lose a chance to join my new job which is my dream job and a gud pay.I am supposed to join them in november 2nd week.
I am confused. Please help.Shud I leave him or shud i ask my mom to stay with me thats what my husband asked my mom to do coz he thinks that someone shud stay with us2 c fault

2006-10-30 16:32:46 · 5 answers · asked by smiling_smiles2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 16:31:40 · 17 answers · asked by pavithra s 1 in Singles & Dating

Say you were in the mall, do you look for them to stare at you? Do u like getting stared at? This one girl i know does.

2006-10-30 16:30:25 · 9 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating