I have simple question for guys. Is there any reason why when BF said “I will call you later tonight, will you be available?” and he simply did not do often now? Is that because he thinks I keep saying “that’s OK darling” previously? What is going on in his mind?? I believe that he is simply tired today, but when it comes to GF, still it is OK for not to call GF?
2006-10-30 16:45:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guys just don't take everything we say seriously, calm down he will call, just not right now!
2006-10-30 16:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by JoeJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to see if he can 'stand you up' on the phone a few times and if he does - what will your response be? If you keep 'taking him back', then he knows what kind of person you are - a doormat.
Tell him in very clear terms, "Listen. This is short so pay attention. If you say you are going to call me "tonight", then we have to agree on a time that we both mean by "tonight." I say it's 8 PM. You say it's - what? June? Well that doesn't work for me so if you want me to not hang up on you every time you call, we have to reach an agreement. 8? No? okay 8:30 or before or I'm hanging up if you call."
Then if he calls after 8:30, hang the f*ck up. He'll get the message sooner or later. If it's later why are you hanging around that loser?
2006-10-30 16:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always a standard issue in relationships that once a certain comfort level is established, each one (more often than not men) takes the others for granted. Sometimes this happens with family members, where we take others for granted, since we feel confident that a trust is established.
Thus the answer is it is not ok, and we have to give the importance to the relationship, letting it go under exceptional circumstances
You need to let your BF know about how you feel
2006-10-30 17:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by rvsasi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be a girl but I know what I'm talking about. So yeah, he is probably just tired or busy. This happens to me too sometimes but then I do it too. It's ok for him to not call when he says he will sometimes, but if it happens almost every time, then you should just ask him why very casually and don't make an issue out of it.
2006-10-30 16:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by anoush1589 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once he starts sliding he will keep on sliding. Talk to him about it. If he can't make more time for you he isn't worth your time. You can probably find a boy 10times better if he is getting lazy. Good Luck
2006-10-30 16:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he called u 24/7 u would be freaking out saying he is obsessed with u asking all of yahoo answers what to do, believe me hun its better he doesnt call all the time bc when they call all the time they drive you nuts!!
2006-10-30 16:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies.... when guys say they will call, they mean like before we die.
2006-10-30 16:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't call he is busy. Cut him some slack!
2006-10-30 16:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys just don;t get it and don;t really understand
2006-10-30 16:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
games
2006-10-30 16:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋