Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

can a chriastian woman marry to a muslim man who already married with kids? Does charistianism allow her to do this?

2006-10-30 15:56:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a question about my father. He treats me badly. He was never a good Christian role model. I know he loves me but he curses at me a lot and is verbally abusive to my mother and I. The other night, my girlfriend and I were at his house holding hands on the couch. I know this story sounds childish and stupid.. My girlfriend said something about the F- word being in the dictionary. I whispered in her ear and she playfully slapped me on the arm. I do not remember what I said, but it was not anything bad. We were just flirting with each other. My dad saw me and thought I had said the F-word to my girlfriend. My girlfriend is 19 and I am 22. He gave me a horrible dirty look and continued to glare at me for the rest of the night. I was mortified. My girlfriend was meeting my dad for the first time and she saw his looks and asked me later why he was so mad at me. When I told her, she was shocked, because I had not said anything wrong to her, my dad just thought I had.

2006-10-30 15:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by TexasCowboy 2 in Family

2006-10-30 15:56:15 · 8 answers · asked by sudans4nu 1 in Friends

But now absolutely no relation as he took the initiative in stopping it as my hubby came to know about this though not fully. I have gone through so much trouble in life but never bothered about my problems and faced everything happily. But now when this relation ended I am feeling finished. Initially he encouraged me..pulled me to him,..pampered me helped me voluntarily...so much behind me. That time he also was going through a bad phase in his personal life with a family and a long standing GF whom he really loved a lot but had cheated on him. He is really doing very well financially. Now he has got that confidence back in his life as even his GF is pleading him to come back and he has that temptation for her always. Their relationship is too long. But now my married life has got completely spoilt and feeling too lonely with nobody around. He doesnot speak properIy if I call. I want to lead a normal..tension free & respectful life forgetting the past. Want to come up in life..help me

2006-10-30 15:55:08 · 8 answers · asked by Saheli 2 in Marriage & Divorce

help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-30 15:54:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a babydaddy and we are to and we have two month old girl together and we been to together for 3 year and i love him but i have a exboyfriend and my is tell me that he love me and he want me back out so i am like talking to him but i have my babydaddy and i love my babydaddy and my exboyfriend so i don't know what to do i need your help i need to pick one of them

2006-10-30 15:53:51 · 14 answers · asked by VERONICA T 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 15:53:13 · 4 answers · asked by Alida A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

one of my questions was removed and it said that I violated the guidlines ,, just to funny , I know I didn't violate anything or anyone , I just think that no matter how interesting the questions are someone has to throw in a monkey wrench and erase it
what do you think???

2006-10-30 15:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

ok here is the situation-I used to be friends with a group of people. We will call the them the "get along gang". I am no longer friend with most of the people because I am not a fence rider and I speak my opinions and am always honest-(to the extent of telling things that people should know because it is seriously hurting their life). Well I have had a few accomplices from the "get along gang" in my truth telling escapades. Everyone in the group is mad at me. Their is even one girl who is going as far as telling lies about me and making people who I have been friends with well over 10 years doubt me as a friend. I have not spoken to most of these people in a year or so. I also sent out an e-mail apologizing for ever hurting anyone(in July) the one and only response I got was a nasty e-mail back, other than that nothing! My question is-should I just put these people behind me or should I try to mend these broken friendships even though I feel like I did nothing wrong?

2006-10-30 15:52:24 · 3 answers · asked by helloworld 1 in Friends

Ok, so i so wouldnt ask this to anyone that i knew. But, i was over at my friends house..and there was something hella funny so i started laughing, and all of a sudden I PEED MY PANTS! i was mortifieddd...is this natural?? i mean this has never happened to me since like kindergarden..now her pants are ruined and she says she cant be my friend anymore....ughh, please dont laugh im soo mortified!!

2006-10-30 15:52:10 · 4 answers · asked by xrooxbitchesx 1 in Friends

I can't understand him. He's my first boyfriend and i'm his 7th girlfriend. In the earlier stage we were just friends. I had a crush on him but i didn't confess. He proposed to me first. For a month he was commited then after that he doesn't talks to me or even look at me. It has been 2 months already. I don't dare to ask him. And i still love him and wanna know if he really loves me too. Please help me and i don't wanna lose him.

2006-10-30 15:51:13 · 14 answers · asked by ShortiieHottie :D 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been e-mailing this guy and i am starting to like him for some reason......... he is just so easy going and we have alot in common. newayz he wants to see my picture but i asked him first but i think he wants to see mine first.what should i do? how do i know if he likes me too please any suggestions. i told him almost everything bout me truthfuly..............

2006-10-30 15:51:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend and i been together for a little over 2 years. we usually break up then make up but this time it's different. he never came back. how can he say he love me one day and turn his cheek and pretend he never met me. how can he do this to me? we've been through so much together. he was my first love, my first for everything. i went wrong when i put my happiness & all of me on him. and now that everything is done & gone im just left here broken. ive spent everyday w/ him and slowly my friends began to drift away. i got nothing left. i left my friends for him. what a wrong decision. love makes you do crazy things. i was so blind. after we broke up it seems like he is having the time of his life. and for me? im striving to move on. how can i move on when everything remind me of him? every song on the radio everything i do or everywhere i go and everything i say. how am i suppose to move on...

2006-10-30 15:50:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do guys expect females to sleep with them, when they aren't even in a relationship. Then they act like they don't have time for you anymore. Is it the sluts thart give it up so easy, so they expect you to do the same thing. Or is that they way it is, in this day and time?

2006-10-30 15:49:07 · 23 answers · asked by keisharra 2 in Singles & Dating

always come back to a dead end relationship where the guy beats and yells at them, they know its bad for them but why they always come back? is it because they have low self esteem and need someone to run their lives?

2006-10-30 15:49:06 · 8 answers · asked by Me 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 15:48:43 · 15 answers · asked by Styliztik 2 in Singles & Dating

how would get him to open up more, if he's shy...

2006-10-30 15:48:38 · 4 answers · asked by Augustine S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, he and I have been together for 7 months, and he will be going home a few days after his birthday day, he will be comming back in a few months, so what do I get him for his birthday to show him that I really care a lot about him?

2006-10-30 15:48:08 · 7 answers · asked by crime_creation_little_puff 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do
honest

2006-10-30 15:46:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-30 15:45:52 · 16 answers · asked by innu 1 in Family

I asked a question about someone at work that is ugly and keeps hitting on me because I am pretty. He only cares about my chest and looks but has a pot belly himself and is old. He wants an attractive women but won't make himself attractive. I complained about how this is a double standard and some people called me shallow and one claimed that I'm not that pretty and attractive.

Why do people get so angry and nasty over things like that? I also said that I would and have dated people that were in fact chubby/fat and one guy was downright hideous. Looks aren't as important to me as other things, so why would they call me shallow?

Are people just bitter and jealous because they feel they are ugly and unattractive, or because they didn't bother to read my whole question?

2006-10-30 15:45:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've tried walking in naked, I've tried a teddy. I am a gamer too, but I can limit my time.
What else can I do? My boyfriend likes war games more than sex. That's just sad to me. I haven't nagged. I've tried simply talking to him.
It's sad, if I had to choose, naked woman would come before war fantasies. Leave your childhoods behind for some sex, men. Hell, I've opened a beer and walked around naked before.
::is frustrated::

2006-10-30 15:44:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

(sorry I am goin to post this again just I am becos Fing mad right now)
I guess it is a perceptual difference...

heres the story: met this girl at a meeting and talked. we drove back and she dropped me off. there was some good conversation and everything, then I asked 4 her number. She gave it to me.
5 days later i called and her mom picked up the phone and telling me this is her old phone and it got activated since her new phone got lost 3 days ago....

I mean, if u didnt want to give me the number its fine..y would you give me a fake one??? that is just lacking the slightest decency..

I am soo pissed right now and thats y I posting on this, I know this is not even a question..
But females: how do u expect being treated with respect if u do sh!ts like this!!????

2006-10-30 15:44:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for about 6 years and was never really attracted to him. I just thought of him as a friend. He was also a couple years younger than me and at 25 that seems like a big difference. Anyways, I saw him out one night and we ended up partying all night. We went back to where he was staying and had sex all night too. The next morning we woke up and he took me to my car. I honestly didn't think that I would talk to him again. The next day he paged me and we texted for like 2 hours. Very flirty and ready to get it on again. Texted him the next day and he texted back very briefly. Then he texted me at 4 in the morning that weekend which was kinda lame. Then on Mond. he texted me wanting me to come over, of course to hook up. I know this is just a hook up, but how would I know if it could be more? What kind of things would he say to make me think he liked me? Or should I just take it as a hook up?

2006-10-30 15:43:18 · 22 answers · asked by sblvlokester 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here my problem. I think I am in love with my best friend of 12 yrs. about 6 yrs. ago he moved but now we are in high school and I forgot how wonderful he is! and I can NOT stop thinking about him. he has seen me at my worse but I can't get dressed in the morning without thinking what he will think about it. Help me. what should I do should I tell him and risk ruining the greatest thing in my life or just go on living like this?

2006-10-30 15:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by dancer4lifeJ 2 in Friends

I married my husband because my mom said i should on her death bed. I have never trusted him because he is a pathological liar,he lies just to be in a conversation. He has cheated before but will never admit it. He has been caught flirting with teenagers but says he is saved now. We don't have sex ,but he swears he loves me,and now he just irritates me,I have never really felt like he loves me. The only reasons I havent left is because I have 4 kids 2 are his and because marriage is honorable in Gods eyes.I am so confused . I have tried to leave but he always says he can do better.Its been 6 years now no better. Please help!!!!!

2006-10-30 15:41:18 · 28 answers · asked by Lynboges 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it me or there is very few interesting guys available in the dating market? While there is plenny of great single women!

I would be curious to know what men and women thik about that!

2006-10-30 15:40:53 · 17 answers · asked by Just a cool and simple Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with my bf early last yr n things did'nt turn out right,so we separated..i meet him 2 months back and we are together now..b4 we were officially an item..he confessed that there was this girl he was with aft me n him broke up.And he got her pregnant n he ask her to abort it.I got so freak out coz he is really a nice guy.He hates her attitude coz she has this very bad temper n tantrum.He can't be with somone like her.They abort the baby and the 2nd time she had a miscarrige.Eventually they broke up but she still wants him.She will even slit her arm to make him stay.
Now me n him are together but the incident of him n the x gf kept running in my mind..I know it's his past..but..If i were to have his baby one day i wont feel special coz my baby is nt his 1st child.. How do i accept all that has happen in a positive way coz i really want this to work..i love him but i wanna be special.n i dun feel tat way aft what happen btw him n the ex gf..

2006-10-30 15:39:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I no i'm just a kid but I was pregnant, I started to spot blood at my fiance's house so his mom let me move in. The doctor told me to put my feet up and rest, he said it wasn't a misscarrage. I lived there for a few months and one day I got really sick and I was in pain so I went to the hostpital, they told me I had miscarried, I felt so lost and sad but my fiance was by my side no matter what, I lived there for a little while longer and I was so happy I had my love with me I was never that happy in my life, my whole life growing up my mom put me through hell....but at the times I lived with my love I was so happy I felt at home but one day his mom said since i'm not pregnant I have to go back home, I cried and cried but nothing happened. I didn't want to go back there! But now i'm here and its only been 5 days and i'm so depressed I feel like I lost both my baby's and all I ever do is cry, I haven't eaten in 3 days, I've only been drinking water. What do you think about that?

2006-10-30 15:39:36 · 6 answers · asked by ~*bOrEd*~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The last time I saw her, was in 1978, Kern county,City of Bakersfield.
Her name, Jan Alison Newberry

2006-10-30 15:39:25 · 4 answers · asked by dann87 1 in Friends