Ok I no i'm just a kid but I was pregnant, I started to spot blood at my fiance's house so his mom let me move in. The doctor told me to put my feet up and rest, he said it wasn't a misscarrage. I lived there for a few months and one day I got really sick and I was in pain so I went to the hostpital, they told me I had miscarried, I felt so lost and sad but my fiance was by my side no matter what, I lived there for a little while longer and I was so happy I had my love with me I was never that happy in my life, my whole life growing up my mom put me through hell....but at the times I lived with my love I was so happy I felt at home but one day his mom said since i'm not pregnant I have to go back home, I cried and cried but nothing happened. I didn't want to go back there! But now i'm here and its only been 5 days and i'm so depressed I feel like I lost both my baby's and all I ever do is cry, I haven't eaten in 3 days, I've only been drinking water. What do you think about that?
2006-10-30 15:39:36 · 6 answers · asked by ~*bOrEd*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How old are you? It was very gracious of your "fiance's" mom to take you in when it was thought that you were pregnant. Thank God you no longer are. It does not sound as though you are mature enough to be a mom.
This boy is your "fiance"? So, when is the wedding? Where will you live after you are married?
If you are old enough to have a fiance, guess what. You are old enough to get a job and get your own place to live. On the other hand, if your maturity level is such that, after returning home, you just cried and cried and stopped eating, then forget the fiance and grow up a little more before moving out. Are you still in school? I would recommend staying in school, graduating, and then move into your own place to live.
2006-10-30 15:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by scruffycat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't relay matter what age u are what relay matters is that u been put through hell and it seems like nobody gives a F**** Where the hell is your boyfriend and why doesn't he say fine if she goes I go. Sure it will take about a week or so to get her to realize he is serious but I think then she will be ready to compromise and if he is not willing to do that then u need to show him that he is not the only guy in the world
2006-10-31 02:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should seriously get into some professional help. You could use some support and some help with your home issues. Clinging onto this guy is not going to fix your problems and neither is having a kid you can not even provide for. You need to work on yourself before you bring a child into this world. Seriously, you would be giving a child and yourself a miss-service by not addressing your issues first. Good luck hon. My heart goes out to you love. :)
2006-10-30 23:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look around and find a good therapist. If you live in a large city you can probably find a free one. Also make sure you're in school and study hard. Time will help you to heal, and hopefully soon you'll be old enough to get your own place. Get on birth control also.
2006-10-30 23:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a grip on life and go on, you did not mention how old you are or if you are in school but you have to move on life is short and you will get yourself sick, no need for that, do what you have to do to take care of yourself and try to be a happy person and take care of yourself!!!!!
2006-10-30 23:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, BUT YOU NEED TO START
LIVING AGAIN. I KNOW THAT THIS IS HARD. BUT TIME WILL
HEAL YOUR PAIN.AS FOR HIS MOTHER, IT MAY SEEM HARSH WHAT SHE DID BUT SINCE YOU ARE NOT
GOING THROUGH THIS IT WOULD BE BETTER FOR YOU
TO GET BACK ON YOUR FEET. YOU DID NOT LOSE THE
LOVE OF YOUR LIFE, SO TIME TO GET BACK TO LIVING
THINGS WILL GET BETTER WITH TIME. TALK TO SOMEONE
ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE FEELING, AND TALK TO YOUR
FIANCE ALSO.
2006-10-30 23:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋