Why do guys expect females to sleep with them, when they aren't even in a relationship. Then they act like they don't have time for you anymore. Is it the sluts thart give it up so easy, so they expect you to do the same thing. Or is that they way it is, in this day and time?
2006-10-30 15:49:07 · 23 answers · asked by keisharra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys like that are no damn good! They do not give a damn about you, or any other woman. And if you do what they want you are a whore plain and simple. And no, that is not just the way it is. These bastards are scum and use women like toilet paper. Do not be one of those women. Have some self respect. Get some real friends. These jerks could not be counted on for anything. What if you got pregnant? You would be single mom with no support. Do you want to be a welfare mom? They use women and then have a good laugh. And if you did find a nice guy. These jerks would tell HIM how "GOOD" you were.
2006-10-30 15:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Men who expect you to automatically put out aren't worth having. If a guy can wait on you and want to have a REAL relationship with you then that's the one you need. No, that is not the way it is now days for some guys. I dated a guy for 3 months and spent EVERY NITE with him and we NEVER had sex! The men who expect sex have only had sluts and if you just give them what they want instead of making them work for it, then they'll never appreciate it.
2006-10-30 23:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by curiousone 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It has nothing to do with this day. It has always been that way. Not every guy is like that, although a great number of them are. Pretty much they are just A holes who will sleep with anyone and if you don't give it to them, they are off to find someone who will. Don't take it personally because they aren't after you, specifically. They are after anything with 2 legs and ****.
It isn't about to change in your lifetime.
2006-10-30 23:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by GORDO BLAKHART 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is pretty simple, we are gonna take what we can get, even the most decent among us. We have a drive you can't really comprehend, but a very few of us are decent enough that we want the whole package not just sex. It is rare, but it is out there, but considering there are apparently very few women with any self respect anymore, what do you expect?
2006-10-30 23:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
.When sex is the only thing they want. They expect you to go along with it. If they really wanted to be with you, they wouldn't expect you to give it up before your ready. but your right It is the females they had before that has them thinking they can get away with it again.
Not all men are like that. A really good man is hard to find,but there are some.
2006-10-31 00:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by kira 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I think that only you can allow others to treat you wrong. If you are not in a relationship and choose to not have sex, then you have a good love of yourself. Only you know whether you are ready or willing, and nothing anyone says or expects should matter. Only do what you can live with.
2006-10-30 23:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by cricketfish 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you should't refer to woman that satisfy their natural needs sluts. Just because you are uptight about sex doesn't mean that everyone else is. If your guy wants it and you don't want to give it up then move on. It isn't your concern if he gets it somewhere else. All you have to do is find a nice church boy that is saving his self for his wife, because most guys are willing to have casual sex. I just saw a program on BBC today and 75% of guys that were asked to have casual sex with this attractive woman said yes. Let them know from the start that you arent' going to give it up. Just remember, if some guys aren't getting it from you, they may go elsewhere.
2006-10-30 23:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It tells you what they are after in the first place and many men do not want to get married or tied up in a relationship as they value their freedom to sleep with anyone they choose.
2006-10-30 23:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some are just out for sex, those are the ones to stay away from...You have to figure that they are sleeping with all these girls and who knows what they are sharing with you...There are good guys out there, find one is the hard part, but when you do its all good....
2006-10-30 23:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Real men will respect your decision, and go out with you anyway becuase they love you, not just the fact your easy.
2006-10-30 23:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by Emily J ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋