I can't understand him. He's my first boyfriend and i'm his 7th girlfriend. In the earlier stage we were just friends. I had a crush on him but i didn't confess. He proposed to me first. For a month he was commited then after that he doesn't talks to me or even look at me. It has been 2 months already. I don't dare to ask him. And i still love him and wanna know if he really loves me too. Please help me and i don't wanna lose him.
2006-10-30 15:51:13 · 14 answers · asked by ShortiieHottie :D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has had 7 gf and it seems he play till he gets what he wants and then moves on ...kick this jerk to curb.....he does not deserve you...miia
2006-10-30 15:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you give him ANY attention through the day? Do you CALL him or ANYTHING? IF SO, STOP IT! You start ignoring him and act like you dont want to be around him and he'll be like "wow, what happened? I thought this chick wanted me?" THEN he'll come back and start giving you attention again if he's a normal guy. GUYS LOVE A CHASE they don't want someone that they can have anytime because then you will always be there fall back! And you dont want to be used that way. This is a game to him so just play the game and get the ball back in your court. It may not be a lot of improvement on his part during the first day or two, but in about 4-5 days when you've blown him off and he feels rejected/neglected then he'll start picking up the pace and coming back. IF this doesn't work, then he's not a typical guy...
2006-10-30 23:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by curiousone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me.
You basically have to flat out ask what's going on? Let him know the pattern that's been occurring and how suddenly things changed. You have to be honest with the guy or he'll never know what you're thinking.
2006-10-30 23:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by meg (on Violet Hill) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a breakdown in communication. If you love him, and he told you he loves you, then talk to him about your feelings. He might not realize that he is upsetting you. If he does know and still doesn't treat you differently, it is time to cut your losses and move on.
2006-10-30 23:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by cricketfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't been talking to you? Maybe it's because you didn't confess your true feelings, and he consequently thought, you didn't love him. YOu have to ask him, young lady and you have to talk to him. But why is it girls, like you say you don't want to lose him, then you do everything you possibley can, to lose him?
2006-10-30 23:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is not that will u lose him or not. the real question is that does he really like u. if he did he would have never treated u this way. i think he is so not worth ur time. and one more question how old r u.......... b/c school love is not really love some day u will find true love... and u will be very happy......
best of luckkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-30 23:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but I think it is time for you to find another boyfriend.
He had too many girlfriends already and is not going to settle down with one.
2006-10-30 23:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE HE DOES NOT KNOW WHAT HE
WANT AND AFTER ONLY 2 MONTHS HE PROPOSED
TO YOU. BUT IS PLAYING GAMES. SOUND LIKE HE HAVE
ISSUES AND IF YOU ARE THE 7 GIRLFRIEND HE HAS HE
HAS COME PROBLEMS SO MAY YOU NEED TO LEAVE
HIM ALONG AND FIND YOU A NEW GUY WHO KNOW WHAT]
HE WANT, THIS WANT DOES NOT KNOW.
2006-10-30 23:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I think that he has already moved on -- and so should you. You should NOT want to keep someone who isn't interested in you! You deserve better!!!
2006-10-30 23:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had a lot of gfs that ignored me before they broke up with me im sorry but i think its time to move on or talk to him
2006-10-30 23:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋