I have known this guy for about 6 years and was never really attracted to him. I just thought of him as a friend. He was also a couple years younger than me and at 25 that seems like a big difference. Anyways, I saw him out one night and we ended up partying all night. We went back to where he was staying and had sex all night too. The next morning we woke up and he took me to my car. I honestly didn't think that I would talk to him again. The next day he paged me and we texted for like 2 hours. Very flirty and ready to get it on again. Texted him the next day and he texted back very briefly. Then he texted me at 4 in the morning that weekend which was kinda lame. Then on Mond. he texted me wanting me to come over, of course to hook up. I know this is just a hook up, but how would I know if it could be more? What kind of things would he say to make me think he liked me? Or should I just take it as a hook up?
2006-10-30 15:43:18 · 22 answers · asked by sblvlokester 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like when he has time then he will text you what happened to phone calls and dates..he texts you at 4 am...whats up he has been out drinking and he needs some booty and you are it ..tell him to take you out and call at a decent time if he can't he has a gf or has a wife..whatever don't give it up to this player and user...miia
2006-10-30 15:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he honestly liked you and was worth staying with, he would probably not have slept with you the first night back seeing each other. I know that people will disagree with me, but I don't real respect and affection is getting in bed the first night and being "flirty" after that. It will probably go nowhere in the long run without a WHOLE lot of work to make it worthwhile.. because he already has been with you.. what gives him reason to not move on and find another girl?
2006-10-30 23:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it as a hook up
do you think he sounds like he could be in a monogamous relationship? and you slept with him when you were both drunk - this isn't a relationship at the making - this is two drunks wanting to get laid at the end of the night
however, if you play it cool and act not interested, and like you don't care, he may find that intreging and want more, who knows. guys are bastards that way, they want what they cant have. but he'll just try harder for more sex. you're older and more experienced and is probably bragging to his friends he hooked up with you.
and buddy was right about the text messaging... SO RIGHT!! lol, he's texting you, big deal. that's the easiest way to communicate with people.
i'm waiting for someone to ask 'if i have unprotected sex with this guy i just met, does this means he loves me?'
what's with all the damn hoes?
2006-10-30 23:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he calls you to "hookup"....be busy or something (unless that is all you intend this relationship to be). If he gets all uppity about it then he will "hookup" with someone else and you will know that you are just a convience to him at the moment. If all your conversations have all of a sudden become "foreplay" so to speak, then maybe the relationship has just turned to a sexual affair. You could try talking to him to find out where this is going, if anywhere, before someone gets hurt. Good Luck!!
2006-10-30 23:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Donna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but it sounds like a booty call to me. See I don't know what you guys have been texting about, but if everytime he contacts you and you both end up in bed, I say, you leave now unless this is something you wanna do without being emotionally involved.
2006-10-30 23:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls put themselves in this situation. No wait, you are a full grown *** woman. Seriously......you never have to wonder if you are a booty call or more if you don't make yourself a booty call!!! You gave it up to easily..I mean yah you knew the guy, but you wonder if he likes you?? You should wonder that BEFORE you have sex, not after.
Gosh, I would think someone would have to "like" (I prefer LOVE) someone before having sex with them.
I'm not going to judge you, but don't ask such a stupid question, it's not that hard........"am I a booty call, he only wants me to come over to have sex??!! I'm confused! wahhhh"
2006-10-30 23:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually your first instinct is the right one. You think you're a booty call, so chances are, you're a booty call. And another thing if a guy text you at "4:00 am" that's "BOOTY CALL TIME."
2006-10-30 23:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lady B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's stupid. The whole time you were friends, he wanted to be your girlfriend. But, you are a wacko and basically kept him in reserve. Then one day, you called in his option for sex. Now, he thinks you two are headed toward a relationship where you are looking to unload him once you get bored.
You two were never friends.
2006-10-30 23:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...if the relationship is based on text messaging at all, then it can't be too much more than booty call....otherwise he may have actually put it the effort to talk to you in person, huh?
2006-10-30 23:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by radioflyer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me like it is just a hook up but if you really enjoyed the sex and it sounded like you did((All Night !!!!!)) Go for him again and have sex all night again and see if he goes any farther than just hot sex.
2006-10-30 23:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋