But now absolutely no relation as he took the initiative in stopping it as my hubby came to know about this though not fully. I have gone through so much trouble in life but never bothered about my problems and faced everything happily. But now when this relation ended I am feeling finished. Initially he encouraged me..pulled me to him,..pampered me helped me voluntarily...so much behind me. That time he also was going through a bad phase in his personal life with a family and a long standing GF whom he really loved a lot but had cheated on him. He is really doing very well financially. Now he has got that confidence back in his life as even his GF is pleading him to come back and he has that temptation for her always. Their relationship is too long. But now my married life has got completely spoilt and feeling too lonely with nobody around. He doesnot speak properIy if I call. I want to lead a normal..tension free & respectful life forgetting the past. Want to come up in life..help me
2006-10-30 15:55:08 · 8 answers · asked by Saheli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I cant really get thru' what u means. perhaps you can restucture your story and rewrite it again.
2006-10-30 15:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Vangelis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I'm misunderstanding your story, but if you are married, perhaps you should put all your energy and focus on making your marriage stress free. This includes putting the past in the past and moving forward. Sounds like your "friend" is doing well, so why get involved now? He was there for you when you both needed it, but now it's time to move forward and don't look back.
2006-10-30 15:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by cricketfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are caryiong too much. It is not possible for a woman to manage two men and satisfy them both neither is it possible for a man to satify two women, it just does not work that way.
You have realised your stress points, please avoid them. there is no satisfaction in this thing, leave it and move on - love trianglkes baby you dont want to be there. Just do your thing enjoy your work if a good man comes and he loves you marry him ad live happily ever after
2006-10-30 15:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could initiate throughout back. placed the internet dating out of your suggestions and placed that ability into your marriage in case you pick for it to artwork. you nonetheless have a raffle to make it artwork with him. while you're no longer prepared to artwork at it then flow on and initiate throughout back on your person. stay and learn out of your errors. bear in mind that your marriage is actual and is there in front of you...you be attentive to your husband and what he's unquestionably like. With a internet dating you purely be attentive to what the different guy or woman tells you. movements talk louder than words.
2016-11-26 20:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie I know it hurts - get thee to a counselor and he/she will help you. The best thing you can do for yourself is to talk to someone about it and work on building your self esteem. Try to stay busy, maybe by doing some physical activity. Looking Hot is the best revenge!!!!
2006-10-30 16:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by theotherwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he used you untill hubby caught wind of it and he tucked tail and ran, put him as far behind you as you can and work things out with dear ole hubby, you might find out your loved alot more than you thought. if not then move on and live with what you have created.
2006-10-30 20:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can help yourself. You have a person that you married that you made a commitment to. I suggest you uphold it and grow up a bit.
2006-10-30 15:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be faithful to your husband and forget the past!
2006-10-30 16:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋