always come back to a dead end relationship where the guy beats and yells at them, they know its bad for them but why they always come back? is it because they have low self esteem and need someone to run their lives?
2006-10-30 15:49:06 · 8 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the time this type of female thinks they can fix this guy...Its the mothering instinct. All they set themselves up for is heartache and heart break...The whole low self esteem thing is true also, some do not want to see these guys with other females so they keep them no matter how they are treated...Hopefully one day they wake up and smell the coffee and look for better things....
2006-10-30 15:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a reality that this sort of situation happens a lot in girls. Girls who do this usually have low self-esteem and are afraid of losing that security when in a relationship with a guy. They feel that if they break up with the guy, they won't be able to find someone who will love them and take care of them anymore. So in the end, they decide to just accept the guy's flaws and continue being with him. There's always that thought that if you love someone, you love them no matter how awful or abusive they can get. I suggest they D-R-O-P this kind of thinking and start having dignity for themselves.
2006-10-30 23:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they found a man who was more decent and willing to take care of them forever then they would probably make a switch. But some girls are insecure and need a man in their life, rather than being alone.
2006-10-30 23:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is the same reason that addicts keep going back to drugs after they have gone through rehab. Some people are dependent on things because they feel they aren't any better than that.
2006-10-30 23:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by nimbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some females altough they didnt realize it, finds it sexy, and they like to be controlled. it doesnt necessarily means that they have low self esteem
2006-10-30 23:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by shin c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to me once!!! yeah! because i love him so much and willing to sacrifice everything for him!!! and also because of our daughter!!! but since then, time comes that i realize that im a fool...so decided to leave him and leave my life alone!!! Now i have found my true love...sometimes, it just takes time to realize your mistakes, specially when it comes to love....but sooner or later, you will...
2006-10-30 23:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are stupid.
2006-10-30 23:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lady B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because guys behaving badly..........................
2006-10-30 23:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by cecilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋