i have a babydaddy and we are to and we have two month old girl together and we been to together for 3 year and i love him but i have a exboyfriend and my is tell me that he love me and he want me back out so i am like talking to him but i have my babydaddy and i love my babydaddy and my exboyfriend so i don't know what to do i need your help i need to pick one of them
2006-10-30 15:53:51 · 14 answers · asked by VERONICA T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-30 15:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that getting back with your ex is really healthy for you or the child you should stay with the child father if he is there for you and the baby good men r hard to come by....and if u was to get back with the ex it might not work due to the fact that u have a child with another man and this man is still wanna see his child regardless of who u with and this ex may have a problem with this child daddy coming around knowing that yall was together and all. Its not gonna work due to the fact that once he got u back he gonna try to make u pay for not having that baby with him.....why do that to that child let her have her father around if he is still in the picture...she dont need to grow up without him having him in the same home will be wonderful....now if things change and baby daddy start acting stupid then leave his a@#, but dont leave for another man that tells u he love u.....just like somebody else on this page said "they not called ex's for nothing" if it didnt work then baby girl it may not work now......u didnt have a baby then now u do its gonna be alot harder then it was the first go round....if u still have feelings for this ex then try to move on....it may be the best thing,........Good luck in whatever u choose and God Bless.......
2006-10-31 00:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by toya1jolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with the baby daddy, because you two have a baby together and you have to think about the baby. And there was a reason why your ex became an ex. What if you breakup with the baby's father and your ex doesn't want anything to do with the child then what, you end up losing the man that loves you and your child. Because that's something to think about.
2006-10-31 00:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by robinson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP!! Right now you need to concentrate on what is best for you daughter. She needs to have a Mom AND a Dad in her life. If your baby's dad is good to her and to you, then you need to do EVERYTHING that you can to make this relationship work. FORGET your old BF!!!! He is only causing trouble and could be gone next week. You need someone to take care of you and your daughter. You should marry him!! Show your daughter how a real family works!
2006-10-31 00:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO STOP LOVING EVERYBODY AND PICK ONE. WHICH ONE IS BETTER FOR YOU AND THE BABY. AND IT MIGHT NOT BE THE BABYDADDY. YOU GOTTA STEP BACK AND LOOK AT THEM BOTH.
2006-10-30 23:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stay with your daughter's father. Why are you going backwards for, if that's your ex let him stay your ex and that's it.I can see if you didn't have a baby or the father to your child ,but no stay with the man you have a child by.If I was in your shoes I would stay with my family.
2006-10-31 00:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the baby's father so you can get married to him and make your child from illegitimate to legitimate with a stable family life.
2006-10-30 23:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL YOU NEED TO BE HONEST IWTH EVERYONE
THAT INVOVLED, YOU AND THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILD
WILL ALL WAY BE TOGEHER BECAUSE OF THE CHILD
BUT IF YOU ARE HAVING FEELING FOR SOMEONE ELSE
THEN YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH THE FATHER OF
YOUR CHILD. IT NOT FAIR TO PLAY GAMES WITH THESE
GUYS FEELING, WHY YOU ARE BACK AND FORTH WITH
THIS, YOU MAY END OF BY YOUR SELF WHY YOU PLAYING/
HONESTLY IS THE BEST POLICY.
2006-10-31 00:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a babydaddy???
2006-10-30 23:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by elisemote 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sigh.....woman!!! You dont even know yourself sooooooo who cares, juz pick any n be HAPPY.
2006-10-30 23:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋