Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

Whether going thru divorce, heart attack, suicide or other, in my town many guys have died. How about where you live? And many of these have been in their 30s, 40s and 50s.

2006-10-30 14:59:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was with my bf early last yr n things did'nt turn out right,so we separated..i meet him 2 months back and are together now..b4 we were officially an item..he confessed that there was this girl he was with.And he got her pregnant n he ask her to abort it.I got so freak out coz he is really a nice guy.He hates her attitude coz she has this very bad temper n tantrum.He can't be with somone like her.Eventually they broke up but she still wants him.She will even slit her arm to make him stay.

Now me n him are together but the incident of him n the x gf kept running in my mind..I know it's his past..but..If i were to have his baby one day i wont feel special coz my baby is nt his 1st child.. How do i accpet all that has happen in a positive way coz i really want this to work..i love him

2006-10-30 14:59:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 14:59:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He will make remarks that make me feel like he thinks I am gay, or when I try to be nice he will say things like disgusting, he has also called me a ******, I am not at all black but I do use some slang. He makes fun of how I look, yells at me for everything is always telling what to do, lets go! put your shoes on! lock the door! EVERYTIME WE LEAVE!!! Then if I move the slightest bit how he doesnt like at the dinner table he'll start panting in grunts, it would scare little kids away, then he gets a look on his face and eats like a wild animal, he is so touchy I dont know how to talk to him, what worse is I am beginning to be disrespectful towards him no matter how hard i try because the stuff he has said has made me not like him very much even though he is family and I love him. I am staying with him to help him move into his new place and help him with his land and animals how can I get along with this grump?

2006-10-30 14:58:55 · 10 answers · asked by knowledge2u4usa 1 in Family

I have recently visited a nearby zoo, and I was completely stunned at the ostrich exhibit. There was a beautiful, tall, majestic ostrich named Tilulu. I want to get to know her! I want her to know how much I love her so--But alas! I have no idea of means of doing so. How can I tell my sweet Tilulu of my adorement? I have fallen in love with her tallness, her beautiful feathers, her charming squawk, and her long legs. She is everything and more that I want in a woman--and I have no way to tell her. Shall I send flowers? Gifts? How can I possible attract her and get her to be my own... For I know she is my soul mate, and together we shall live in harmony for all times... Through thick and thin, we shall love eachother until the very end of time itself. I must somehow show her how much she means to me, and I need your help. Please, give me suggestions to woo my dear maiden. Feel free to share with me successful love stories of your own, to inspire me. I await the advice.

2006-10-30 14:58:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok... i had sex not to long ago but he didnt go in all the way and nothing "popped" so would that still make me a virgin or not?

2006-10-30 14:56:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a woman in my 30's who's engaged to a wonderful man. We are going to be married next year. My fiance & I are planning our own wedding & spending our own money. We agreed to have a small wedding. But my Mom is insisting on having alot of people at our wedding & she's even telling me who should be my bridesmaids & what I should wear at the wedding. I am of Indian origin my fiance is white. In my cultrue married women aren't supose to be the bridesmades but 3 of my briedsmaids are married. So my mom is telling me that her sisters unmarried daughter should be in my wedding but my cousin is not a good person & I don't want her in my wedding. Now my sis is backing out of being my maid of honer. When my fiance & I had problems I used to talk to her & seek advice. Now my fiance & I no longer fight & we have a healthy relationship. Now my sisters marriage is not all that healthy & she doesn't talk to me much & I even pick a wedding date that suited her's & her kids schedule. I am sad.

2006-10-30 14:55:26 · 26 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Weddings

how should i tell him that i quite school im worried he might dis own me and never talk to me again and would have nothing to do with me. so how should i tell him to where he would understand?

2006-10-30 14:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by emo punk 1 in Family

what do you do when ur married but the feelings arnt there anymore.....its not like they just left me....its over the past few momnths its been rocky....shes been talking to her ex a few times on the phone but they talk for hours.....she is constantly checking my phone bill for things, she get into my e-mail looking for things and she has been known to have a horried attitude for know reason. its like the things i do never makes her happy. i moved from my hometown to the city for her becasue she didnt likew it there. i had her flown from her house to mine about 3 times because she leaves all the time and for now reason. my friends all tell me that i should have left her a LONG time ago but for some reason i bring her back and take her back. but now that shes back this time its like whats the point.....she has done me wrong in more ways than one,with my money especially. she took over 2500 with both trips back home and left me for a weeks at a time and then calls and wants to comeback.

2006-10-30 14:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by Gary N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 14:54:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it your all so hooked on the "perfect" body and you all want a barbie doll??? I am sweet,pretty,funny,and alot of fun to be with......yet men won't give me a chance because i am overweight.Are there ANY men out there that can get past not having a perfect body and get to know what a amazing woman i truly am??only serious replies please,Thanks

2006-10-30 14:53:42 · 23 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 14:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Singles & Dating

what do guys expect from girls i mean honestly like weve only been together a week but its moving fast...and theres a party at the end of the week that hes invited me to and idk what he expects. Its hasnt been that long but it seems like it has just on where we stand...were in highschool if it helps, thanks...!

2006-10-30 14:53:00 · 12 answers · asked by ugly truth 3 in Singles & Dating

PE class? One of them stole my beloved, best and only friend, my ipod.

2006-10-30 14:51:23 · 14 answers · asked by N/a 2 in Friends

So many people say 12 is too young... but i am in sort of a strong relationship and umm... i just wonna know, If the oppurtunity came to me at a young age, can i take advantage of it?
I agree with what people say on here... "wait til highschool," but the oppurtunity came to me and i took advantage.
There are no answers, jus put your opinion.

2006-10-30 14:51:21 · 14 answers · asked by shurdonky 2 in Singles & Dating

who i have coffee with once in a while. how do i know if he's interested in me or not?

2006-10-30 14:51:14 · 2 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend susana is a b*tch becuz the bell rang after 3rd period and i was hurring up to meet ma frined there becuz she said to wait for her.and susana said wait for me and i said i have to go and she said why i said becuz my friend is meeting me and she said i dont f*cken care fo sh!t. and she gets mad if i hang around with my other friends.wat should i do!

2006-10-30 14:50:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-30 14:50:00 · 12 answers · asked by Mia J 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy and I just asked him out today he said I have to check with my assosiate whatever that means and then he told me he'll think about it. What does that mean?

2006-10-30 14:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by iambeautiful65 2 in Singles & Dating

i know im going to get answers like (gross, prev, get a life, get a job, get a girlfriend) oh well!! damn the bill of rights..lol

2006-10-30 14:49:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there anyway that I can give him some clues that I'm into him or have feelings towards him. Is there some way to do this? I just wanna give him the message that I like him.

2006-10-30 14:48:49 · 12 answers · asked by Alicia 5 in Singles & Dating

i have a feeling that my girl is going to leave me and i dotn see y she is. she has been avoiding me for around a month sayng she is busy with her freinds. wjat should i do???

2006-10-30 14:48:26 · 12 answers · asked by emo punk 1 in Friends

everytime I go past him he darts his eyes on me. Please let me know because I like him and I don't know if I should make my move on him. Because I don't want to feel weird if he says that he doesn't like me.

2006-10-30 14:48:08 · 15 answers · asked by it's just me 1 in Singles & Dating

...if a guy starts talking to you a lot and smiles at you mean that he likes you? like today, this guy i sorta like, started talking to me sooo much, smiled at me, and i was sitting there, and then he came to sit down next to me. sometimes he walks with me to PE and stuff like that. Does he like me? i sorta hope so :-) What do you think? I don't want to get my hopes up.

2006-10-30 14:47:08 · 3 answers · asked by chaos causer 5 in Singles & Dating

Still reeling from an experience with Yahoo's Instant Messager ... Met a guy on MySpace and was invited to chat thru IM. Started out nice enough ... but in a little over a week, things started to get strange! I found myself getting emotionally pulled into the relationship, but kept a steady online distance. Fortunately I did not give him any sensitive financial info when he said he needed my "help".

I'd like to know how to avoid this again ... that was brutal!

2006-10-30 14:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by Denny 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there's this guy and he's new. He's my friends friend so he talks to me. We were walking and he was making fun of me to a point where i wanted to slap him so hard so i wuz like wtf and jus left to go talk to Chantal, Bria, Jazmine,Tanya, All of them. Then when we walked into the cafeteria he said he was sorry and he wanted me to buy him food. I was like no that's really stupid of you to ask me that after you made fun of me. I'm not sure if he's in foster care or something but something about him makes me say yes. I DON'T even like HIM!! what is wrong with me??? I've bought him lunch for a week and i don't see him to stop asking me. So what do i say to him when he tells me to buy him lunch when i see him tomorrow?? He even told some guys i talk to that i'm his bit*h!!!! I went up to him and cursed him and finally slapped him out but he always says sorry.

2006-10-30 14:45:34 · 17 answers · asked by . 4 in Friends

The report came back unsubstantiated. I did nothing wrong but she is out to get me. What can I do? I have a copy of the report from the state. This needs to stop for the sake of my kids!

2006-10-30 14:45:26 · 16 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i liked this guy and now i don't i am pretty sure he knows.but when he knew i liked him he didn't and still doesn't talk to me (he should know i don't like him now )what does the silence mean ,besides that he doesn't like me.

2006-10-30 14:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, it seems like he likes me too. To me and my friends, it seems like he likes me and flirts with me a lot, what should I do?

2006-10-30 14:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I will be using nicknames for us

I used to like this boy, then I didn't because me best friend started dating him. 19 Hours later she broke up with him. Then he hooked- up with another girl. My locker nieighbor! I don't know if I like him or not. He says he looks upon personality. That's bullsh!t. We are exactly the same. We both like the same Tv Shows, we both are troublemakers, and theifs. What shoud I do?


P.S: I don't know if I like him or not! But I heard he like me!!!

2006-10-30 14:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by Knock out 1 in Friends