Why is it your all so hooked on the "perfect" body and you all want a barbie doll??? I am sweet,pretty,funny,and alot of fun to be with......yet men won't give me a chance because i am overweight.Are there ANY men out there that can get past not having a perfect body and get to know what a amazing woman i truly am??only serious replies please,Thanks
2006-10-30 14:53:42 · 23 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, there are plenty of us out here that do not consider looks first. But lets be honest, guys are pretty visual creatures. It's how we work. That being said, whatever you look like, whomever you are, there is someone out there who likes that. It's the law of averages. But here's a question... are you self concious about your looks? If so, confidence is addicting, and if you don't have it, forget it. My advice is get out there and hang with friends you can talk with and have a good time. If you like yourself, it will shine through and eventually mr. right will come along. BUT, if there are things you want to improve on, then get going! Improve on them and be the best you can be for you, and then you'll find someone great to share it with, because when you are happy with you, it attracts.
2006-10-30 15:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are hooked on the "perfect" body and want a barbie doll. I for one am not into the "stick figures". My "perfect" girl is someone who is secure with themselves and happy with just who they are. I'll be honest and say the first thing I look for is a body but it has to match the perfect personality. There is nothing wrong with being overweight as long as you are healthy. If you still can't find the "perfect" guy, give me a reply: kureeus1@yahoo.com
2006-10-30 23:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by kureeus1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont care to a certain point. If you are like 100 lbs overweight, then I would probably pass you up. but thats only because at that point you would be unattractive. I think that even 50 lbs overweight is fine. There is much more to a relationship than what the body looks like. I once heard of a saying about this one beautiful woman. "somewhere, there is a man, that is sick of putting up with her shi.t"
Barbie girls tend to be too self centered and giddy. I cant stand that personally. Give me an average woman with a great mind and personality over barbie any day.
2006-10-30 22:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Bistro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be those man who didnt give look aren't interested but honeestly in real there are people of different types .. I know loving a barbie doll which most man desires but then it will be limited to body which will not be same all life . But there are guys who don;t care body - in fact there are people of all kinds - the real beauty is inside the human body - some can look like supermodel but might don;t know anything important or nothing about life . Just wait till you meet some one who fits you .. there is some one for every one in this world but you have to find it - don;t loose hope - it;s not body thin or fat - just be healthy eat healthy and live healthy life - everything will be fine later - I am not bullshitting anything - see if it;s not true .
2006-10-30 23:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Thinking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not want barbie, but then I'm gay.
I gotta tell you. I don't want ken either, though. Size isn't important to me, but come on....there's gotta be SOMETHING to work with.
OK well maybe if I fell in love with Ken first, and THEN he lost all of his equipment in a terible accident, I'd stay with him and all. But that's different.
Oh wait. Back to you. Big girls just gotta stop eating so much cornbread and cake for dinner. Get to a gymn and work out.
Or find a guy that's not so perfect either. Are your expectations too high, or unrealistic? Are you looking at only the guys that have the body you consider perfect? Are you limiting yourself to a particular type?
There's someone for everyone.
2006-10-30 23:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Angry Gay Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who only cares about a female being thin or unchanged in body after having kids or going through some health problem is not worthy of your time and effort. First, Barbie is just a toy of fantasy. You are real. There is no comparison when common sense is applied. As one who has collected Barbies, I knew that no female had to attain the unrealistic figure of Barbie. I never told my wife that she needed to lose weight to please me. That was not the reason of mine for marrying her. It was up to her to decide how she felt about appearance. No matter how attractive one may be, it is of no value if there is inside only ugliness. Being self centered or unkind out weighs looks efvery time.
2006-11-02 14:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by maybf22000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men want a healthy, energetic, well groomed women. The Barbie Doll type is actually the girl's ideal of a perfect body. If you are overweight, you cannot make men desire you sexually if that is not what they want.
2006-10-30 23:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its funny becasue yes most men want a perfect female that looks like a barbie doll but what alot dont realize its that woman are special and uniqe in there own way. so u may not have the perfect body...i bet u u make it up with ur personality and genuality. some men want loks over naything but with looks u get alot of different other things. and dont get me wrong there alot fo females who have good looks but also have great attitudes and attributes. but the ones that have decent looks are to me the ones that are the most caring and they dont ask alot from you. i dunno if this makes sence or even answeres ur question. just thought id try anway! have a rgeat day or nyte!
2006-10-30 23:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Gary N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think all women are beautiful in their own way. in ancient times being overweight was a sign of wealth and was considered desirable. Cleopatra, Helen of Troy and Venus *the goddess of love) were all plump. and actually it is women that fostered the image of what beautiful and the perfect woman is. one of the women in Gone with the Wind complained of having a very small waist. under 20" if i recall correctly. since there are more women than men (4 to one in Atlanta) the competition for a man can be fierce. to attract men women started to were less clothing and started covering less of their body. i'm not saying that it is correct but most men think that thin women look better in those type of clothes. to make money clothes designers concentrate their efforts in that arena. to show off those clothes they need thin models. thus it perpetuates the image of thin being beautiful. this is the image of beauty through most of the eyes of the world. there are men that love BBW. don't give up on men. not all of us are shallow and see only the outward beauty. too many thin, so called beautiful women are spoiled and want men to kiss their feet. they want men to feel privileged to be seen with them. i guess if men are going to have to bow at the ankles to get close to a woman they prefer to do that with women that other will think are attractive.
2006-10-30 23:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are hooked on the perfect body. most girls think that. i have no preference myself it's all about personality and what kind of person you are, then looks. they aren't everything. since you have no picture you are either self-conscious about you weight and or have low self-esteem. you have to learn to love yourself first. i'd love to meet an amazing woman but it usually just doesn't happen for me. nobody knows my soft side and how well i treat women. so i lost weight and i feel better about myself and i go out and about and let the women come to me. it worked for me and can work for anyone. i'm not saying it's the answer cause i believe everyone has a soulmate and God will bring him to you no matter what.
2006-10-30 23:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by whatisthis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋