Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

My sister, for reasons only known to her, DOES NOT get along with her in-laws. I personally have nothing against them. Anyways, every holiday her in-laws invite me to dinner. But I never go because my sister refuses to go and I don't feel right leaving her alone since her husband and the kids do attend the dinners. What can I say is my reason for NOT being able to attend?

2006-10-30 14:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by nina 3 in Family

This sucks. Okay she didn't reject me, but I don't think she likes me anymore.(I'm not going to say why).

She always acted like she liked me. I know she liked me. In fact she liked me first, then I liked her(That happens to me a lot).

I felt like my grades were slipping cuz I was thinking about her too much. She also always told me to smoke pot(She smokes ALL THE TIME). So I tried it the other day. Today I started getting the feeling that she didnt like me.

So now I'm half heart-broken, half-pissed off. She led me on for about a year that she liked me, convinced me to smoke(She was the only reason I smoked. I totally regret trying it).

Now I feel like nobody will go out with me. I'm telling myself I don't like her anymore because of it, but I still can't stop liking her. I hate this feeling.

2006-10-30 14:42:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This women i know only talks to me when she wants to .
Iff her friends are around she won't talk to me .
She say's the reason for this is because they think I'm werid because i don't talk to them .
What do you all think

2006-10-30 14:42:20 · 14 answers · asked by lorenzo p 3 in Friends

Just think of all the thing people can tease about your name. Jack of all trades. Or they can call you Jack off. Maybe Jack the ripper. Or some one could say quit Jacking me around. Im sure you could think of a few Jack names.

2006-10-30 14:42:04 · 15 answers · asked by Robertus911 3 in Family

my bf and i broke up...we would have been 3 years in December. we have been talking a LITTLE bit..but not about the relationship just about our days and things..

were not screaming at each other or crying...

well i would like to be friends with him and just be able to hang out and have fun. and if something were to happen along the way then it happens and were meant to be.


we broke up because supposedly "i made him late to everything" we werent living together because im only 19 and he's only 21.

he said we fought too much over stupid little things and it was getting annoying. he said it was a relief that the fighting was done.

he said he doesnt miss the fighting or the lateness.

so he misses the rest of me? he said he was happy without those things.

well i just want to be friends with him...how should i suggest it to him? i don't want to be shot down.

he doesn't want to be tied down and i want nothing serious either..just friends...what do i say?

2006-10-30 14:41:54 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Friends

2006-10-30 14:41:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am about to get married. I have been dating my fiancee for 3 years and we have had a pretty stable relationship. A couple of years ago, she had to work abroad for 3 months. During that time I got to spend a lot of time with her sister, who is a year younger. To make a long story short, things got out of hand. I slept with her sister and got her pregnant. Her sister's baby is actually mine. A DNA test has confirmed this beyond the shadow of doubt. Her sister and I agreed that this would never be spoken of again and we would take the truth to our graves. The problem is I am feeling a lot of remorse. The wedding day is drawing near and this guilt is killing me. She is so nice and so beatiful and she loves me so much, it breaks my heart to go on like this. Should I reveal the truth or keep the secret forever?

2006-10-30 14:41:34 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it pointless because in the end you just get hurt....and if you like someone who doesnt like you back its just another promblum in life that i dont want to deal with...so should i just not even think of guys know

2006-10-30 14:41:22 · 14 answers · asked by sleighbells 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 5 years (I'm only 26). It seems like nothing is changing for the better. I'm not happy, and I feel like i'm crying all the time. We don't sleep in the same bed anymore. He just wants things his way and doesn't like to compromise. I bend over backwards for him, but he doesn't seem to notice. I feel i deserve better. My feelings are seriously starting to change. I'm not sure If i'm still in love.

2006-10-30 14:41:07 · 23 answers · asked by Ms. let-down 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have met this guy on the internet about a month ago. We just started talking on the phone about a week an half ago. Now, do you think its to soon to meet face to face? If its not soon, where's a good place to meet him? I know it should be in a well lite area, with a lot of people around. But where in Chicago and you do such a thing? Thanks! :)

2006-10-30 14:40:22 · 23 answers · asked by denise 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so i like this guy (we'll call him billy) and my best friend (we'll call her sally) has known billy most of his life and hes done some really stupid **** but hes stopped and is trying really hard to make up for it but sally still thinks hes not worth my time and i don't know if i should go with her opinion or with my heart.....cuz like the last bf i had turned out to be a total jerk and sally had told me this from the start ( and i didn't listen) but i really think this guys diff. please help!!!

2006-10-30 14:39:23 · 8 answers · asked by * 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend invited me to his engagement party. i got him really expensive glassware and then a month before the wedding when the invites went out, he visited me at work and said he had to leave me out of the guest list cos he doesnt have enough money to include me. do you think this was a careless mistake or he knew i wouldnt be going and invited me to the enagement for the present? he did come to tell me to my face. what do you think

2006-10-30 14:39:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

can anyone give me some idea on what should i give to a girl as a birthday present,
that won't show that im madly in love with her, and not very romantic, but cute n sweet
she is cute, very innocent, a little bit childish sometimes
tq:)

2006-10-30 14:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by shin c 1 in Singles & Dating

Family Law in Illinois. What can the judge do to a mother who against the judgement keeps the children away from the farther due to his non payment of child support.

2006-10-30 14:38:01 · 12 answers · asked by lidiawilkowski 1 in Family

Help!

2006-10-30 14:38:01 · 27 answers · asked by Babygirl101 1 in Friends

ok i have a boy and i m not good at kissing and making. and neither are the girls in my cheerleading team. so what we do is the practice it with each other. this is what went wrong today. me and my friend were dismissed from cheerleading practice. we started practicing the kissing and making in the girls locker room in our cheerleading uniforms. we were french kissing, pressing each other and lifting each others mini skirts. it was good practice but i think both of us got a bit too excited so we took off each others uniforms and continued...what do you think of this

2006-10-30 14:36:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anika 2 in Friends

...make a like "move" to tell this guy that I like him, but not act on it. I don't want to start dating him, I just want to be friends and a little tiny bit more than that. How do I tell him that. He's an athletic person, I'm athletic, and he loves who I am. I have a feeling he already likes me, so should I move, should I act, or should I just keep on going with showing him my athletic skills. He trys to impress me sometimes, should i do the same with him?

I'M SO CONFUSED! Please help me! What should I do?

2006-10-30 14:36:40 · 1 answers · asked by chaos causer 5 in Singles & Dating

Now be honest, why??? why does it seem like you ladies all like the jerk, the @**hole, the guy that will cheat on you and treat you bad?? Is it just something that you cant control and end up being with the guy that cheats you bad?? do some of you need the drama and trauma?? I hate it cuz ive had a few exes say your a sweetheart, your too much of a nice guy and then dump me...

2006-10-30 14:36:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

has a wife and two kids the kids that are in school, He paid for her to go to school. she obtanined a CPA and wont work. his school was postpoaned for her. in the last 2 years he has filed for bankruptce and is now working 3 jobs just to keep his family afloat. she sits around geting fat. what would you say to my friend?

2006-10-30 14:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you prefer to

a) let the guy think he runs the show but you really pull all the strings (come on ladies you know you do this)

b) be outright dominating and wear the pants

c) be submissive and let the guy take charge

d) try for 50-50

2006-10-30 14:35:32 · 12 answers · asked by aijdoiasjd i 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved in with my boyfreind about four months ago. We got kicked out of our appartment because our land lord doesn't want us to have dogs. We have to be out by tomorow. I found a place after calling around and looking at places... My boyfriend hasn't even seen the place, eventhough he has has plenty of oppertunities to see it. I have spent all day packing, moving, and cleaning. He hasn't done one thing... On top of that my brother pormised that he would come over tonight and help me. He didn't show up, and didn't call. Infact I made dinner for all of us, and the steaks I made are now cold on the counter. I know that my brother is a busy person, but i do so much for him, i would think that he would step up to help seeing how much of a pinch we are in. The best part of all of this is that my bestfriend (we've been friends for twenty years) had the day off today. Everyday she has been calling to see how the appartment hunt was going, but she didn't even offer to help.

2006-10-30 14:34:17 · 16 answers · asked by jelly 3 in Singles & Dating

He says he will pay support and forget it, but I know he goes over to her apt behind my back. She even told him to leave me and be with her. The hard part is he denies that he goes to see the child, so when I bring it up he tells me I'm crazy! When they fight he brings me into it, otherwise I don't hear about it. He blames her for calling him. He won't admit to anything! To make matters worse she was due on the same day I was, only I lost my son due to placenta abruption at 30 weeks. I don't know what to do b/c he is married to me and told me if he wanted to be with her he would have left me long ago.

2006-10-30 14:33:59 · 40 answers · asked by Angel2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my husband have been together 10 years married for 2, and we have 2 children together. we have had our issues in the past but we have gotten through them together and fought hell a hard to be together, we are in love but , I don't feel that tingling sensation when he kisses me or touches me anymore, when we are trying to get intimate and when he kisses me i don't get turned on. what can i do to fix this?, this has been going on for 5 years, and i had enough!

2006-10-30 14:33:54 · 11 answers · asked by princessa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically hold seperate conversations with 2 people? If I am talking to 2 different people will they see what each other write's?

2006-10-30 14:32:50 · 3 answers · asked by sandman 60 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 14:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by martino 1 in Singles & Dating

how long does it take to boil 4 eggs in boiling hot water ?

need to know asap they have been in about 5 min by the time this post.

2006-10-30 14:32:22 · 13 answers · asked by v32817 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, I'm 21 years old & I have a boyfriend, we have been together for a year now. We have just recently been sexual with eachother...Not intercourse (yet =p) All we've done was four play...I was just curious does anyone now any good tricks? I'm new at this =]...Guys & Girls tell me your secrets!
Please try to be as specific as possible...& don't just say suck his d*ck or anything obvious...Like, what gets you in the mood? (Guys) Do you like the girl to be in control or do you? Kinky? sweet? passionate? all of the above?!? Lol...K help me out here....

2006-10-30 14:32:00 · 12 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Singles & Dating

because honestly, i'm having trouble with that
and i'm just about to give in



this is why i can never keep relationships with myguys
they all want to do it.. and i don't.

2006-10-30 14:31:38 · 45 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Singles & Dating

Have a disgruntled ex who has been slandering me and posting false rumors & worse on about me on myspace as well as on another site. Is there a legal way to stop that?

2006-10-30 14:31:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i do who should i beleave ???

2006-10-30 14:30:59 · 12 answers · asked by daddys_girl231 1 in Marriage & Divorce