This sucks. Okay she didn't reject me, but I don't think she likes me anymore.(I'm not going to say why).
She always acted like she liked me. I know she liked me. In fact she liked me first, then I liked her(That happens to me a lot).
I felt like my grades were slipping cuz I was thinking about her too much. She also always told me to smoke pot(She smokes ALL THE TIME). So I tried it the other day. Today I started getting the feeling that she didnt like me.
So now I'm half heart-broken, half-pissed off. She led me on for about a year that she liked me, convinced me to smoke(She was the only reason I smoked. I totally regret trying it).
Now I feel like nobody will go out with me. I'm telling myself I don't like her anymore because of it, but I still can't stop liking her. I hate this feeling.
2006-10-30 14:42:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her some time to cool down. don't let your grades sleep for a woman
2006-10-30 14:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hands down, every girl wants a strong, confident man. That's why oftentimes it appears that "nice guys" finish last and the girl always goes for "the jerk." In reality, a guy doesn't necessarily need to be a jerk to get the girl, just really confident in himself. Somehow with your slipping grades and trying things you normally wouldn't, she has sensed that you lost your confidence and decided to look elsewhere.
It sounds like you're real down and beating yourself up over this. You shouldn't!!! Obviously you are a passionate, romantic and free-spirited individual, or this wouldn't be affecting you so much.
Take this time to seek out the people and activities that help bring out and mirror your most positive qualities. You most likely have a lot that you're not seeing right now. Do whatever you have to in order to start feeling better about yourself. This might mean getting more active with a hobby, spending more time with friends/family, getting those grades up, working out...whatever. You know yourself the best.
If she's not making you feel good about yourself then stay away until she doesn't affect you anymore. Then when you get to a better place, you can be friends with her again, as a better, more confident you! And maybe that's who she originally liked in the first place...
2006-10-30 23:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by SummerPixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should let her go right now. The thing is that she led u on for one year and even tried pot and your not with her yet. She's bad news and go for someone else. I know its hard but I have the same feeling because I got rejected last week and its hard but it gets easier every day and u need to focus on something else (not pot) which will help u out through the first days or weeks and soon or later you'll get over her.
2006-10-30 22:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself: Your grades are slipping over her, you tried drugs to get her to like you, and now you're obsessing over a girl who treated you like dirt. YOU DON'T NEED HER. In fact, the best thing for you to do right now is forget girls completely and get back on track. I went through almost the same thing with a guy three years ago, and I'm never doing that again.
2006-10-30 22:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have stuck to what you wanted for yourself, to not smoke pot. She would have respected you more and maybe it could have worked. We will sometimes attract to us those that encourage what we want for ourselves. It is what is easier for us to change if we are no longer around it. As soon as you smoked pot you were no longer what she wanted.
You are young and need to focus on yourself and becoming an educated healthy contribution in our society. If you become interestead in your own development you become attractive and others will want to be with you.
2006-10-30 23:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by moire1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does like you but not the wa you like her, sounds like she has you in her friend zone (good luck getting out) but dont let anyone make you feel like you are unwanted and you will always like her becaus eyou love her in someway so thats that but let her know how you feel and deal woht the responc=se and try to keep on with your life
2006-10-30 22:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw sweety i would go out with you =( thats sad. i was rejected a lot of times... it's heartbreaking and unfortunantly you wont get over it. i'm so stupid for stll liking the guy who rejected me. i mean he gave me all the signals and when my friends asked him...he said no. its awful.
the girl is not worth it. just think about it...do you really want someone like that? =/ i hope things work out... nofx rocks by the way
2006-10-30 22:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if i get rejected by that person that i can find some one better or consider some one else
2006-10-30 22:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by music=life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be strong, keep yourself busy to take your mind off her. Ask yourself if you think she's worth you feeling sorry for yourself??
2006-10-30 22:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by ask me ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so pathetic...girls don't like guys who like them too much. It's just the way it is.
2006-10-30 22:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋