because honestly, i'm having trouble with that
and i'm just about to give in
this is why i can never keep relationships with myguys
they all want to do it.. and i don't.
2006-10-30 14:31:38 · 45 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i am a teenager and i don't want to have sex, until me and my girlfreind are ready, i have goals.
2006-10-30 14:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by J.r. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes how ever most teen guys think about sex at least twice every hour so dont condemn them its a hormonal thing just like girls, let them know straight up sex is off the books and holding hands will be as far as they get, good on you for not giving in to preasure I hope you can keep yourself for mr right
2006-10-30 14:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by TrOpPo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is definitely possible to have a solid high school relationship without sex. I know I have had long lasting relationships without it, you just need to be concious of who you are trying to go out with and the way you flirt to get him. Perhaps boys want to have sex because you give that impression unintentionally. If there is a boy you are going out with that you like and you think he likes you to, then you should feel comfortable to have a serious conversation with him about not having sex.
2006-10-30 14:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lena P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok let me say this. Stop hving sex with guys from your school because guys love to brag.
Also you said ur relationships don't work out, maybe because your having sex with them.
Once you have sex you've given up ur upper hand. they will begi to distance themselves from you. You really can't expect more because most guys especially under 20 they usually just want to know what you feel like and move on to the next.
I had a few boyfriends in highscool but I only had sex with one and we had be together on and off for a year. And it was 2 weeks b4 he graduated and the end of the year.
Go out with guys from your neigborhood.
But PLEASE stop having sex, you are to prescious to allow yourself to be used by these boys who don't really care about you
2006-10-30 14:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by lamikashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of them are really pressured by their friends. i've had some really close friends that have had problems w/ their boyfriends wanting to have sex, but mostly because their friends were making fun of them and giving them a hard time. it sucks.... im the same way. i hate that sooo many guys only want sex, even though they might be a really good guy, that makes them seem sooo much worse to me. im a freshman in college and it's even worse. they're really horny here, and they don't have to keep it on the DL because they don't have anyone to tell them what to do. sooo good luck... im having the same problem and haven't found a solution yet. just keep on trying, and eventually you'll find one... that's what im hoping. : )
2006-10-30 14:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by mayso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because you are decent and know there is life beyond high school and Yes there are good boys out there also feeling much the way you do and who do not suffer from diminished insight.
Sadly, your generation is quite warped and there will be a lot of female causalities. Don't be one of them...you are on the right track.
2006-10-30 14:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to find a guy who loves and respects you before all of that. Just get to know a guy really well before you start a relationship with him ok. That should be a good indication of what he is really like. If i guy really cares about you, he will wait until the time is right for you. I hope you find the right guy you're looking for. Best of luck!
2006-10-30 14:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by 100% TOP NOTCH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns girl.
Don't do it until YOU are ready. And wait until you're REALLY ready.
There are some guys i'm sure in your high school that dont' want to.
And, if they're pressuring you, they're NOT worth your time.
Guys aren't that important, really, especially since only 10% of high school relationships last to marriage, and with a 50% divorce rate in the country, giving it up to someone in High School when you dont' want to is not smart.
2006-10-30 14:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You can have a boyfriend in High School who doesn't want to have sex. They are hard to find. The quite guy or the nice guy will usually have enough respect to honor your wishes. The question to ask yourself is "Are you willing to wait"? I hope this give's you some insight.
2006-10-30 14:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by sandman 60 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all guys think about and they don't care what they say or do to get it. Maybe a Christian boy would be a better bet if you want a boyfriend who doesn't want sex.
Don't give in...you will be disappointed because after he gets what he wants he'll be on to the next conquest. It's a game for guys.
2006-10-30 14:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible my daughter had a boyfriend for a year that didn't expect sex, in fact alot of the kids here both girls and boys are chosing not to have sex. And don't talk well of the ones that are.
2006-10-30 14:34:50 · answer #11 · answered by passionannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋