Is it pointless because in the end you just get hurt....and if you like someone who doesnt like you back its just another promblum in life that i dont want to deal with...so should i just not even think of guys know
2006-10-30 14:41:22 · 14 answers · asked by sleighbells 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's a question for you, "How will you know someone will like you back unless you take a chance and give it a try?"
You will find that life (and love too) is all about having the courage to take certain risks. How do we learn to swim unless we make the effort to get our feet wet? How will we know what that certain dish tastes like unless we actually take a bite? Simple analogies, yes, but it also applies to the journey we call life.
You will always run across problems in life -- there is no way to avoid them, so don't try. The best way to cope with them is to dare to confront them and tackle them head-on. Yeah, you will experience hurt, but don't let it scare you or defeat you. Accept the challenge and go out and do it anyway.
The best lessons in life are learned and it is the struggles that teach us well.
2006-10-30 14:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's life, and you never know what is ahead, that is the simpliest way anyone can really put it. Everyone has their own opinion on liking someone, or flirting, or being in love some will say its pointless some will say its a way of getting experienced. Personally, I think it is a way of experience.
2006-10-30 14:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says that in the end you'll get hurt? Try to go for the nice guy that way maybe you won't. When we fall in love with someone there's always a risk of getting hurt, but there's alsio a possibility of a great true love. If it won't work and you get hurt, it will only make you stronger.
2006-10-30 14:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly speaking, girls are always emotionally hurt in the end....i know so many of my friends that end up crying.....really i feel that patience is the key.....and aren't marriages made in heaven? So that means we don't really have control over this stuff...just go with the flow and if a decent guy comes along give him a chance....although decent guys are really hard to find now a days
2006-10-30 14:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sometimes can agree guys can be damaging. but its not pointless to like someone because soon enough someone worth waiting for will come along. if they dont like you back its not like you love them you should oversee it and look toward positive things and meeting new people that are interested in you.
2006-10-30 14:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... well.... i liked the same guy since 8th grade... im now a freshman in college and just decided to forget about him and move on. the week that i decided to move on, i started viewing people in different ways. during high school...i know it's pathetic, but i didn't have any boyfriends because i was sooo stuck on this one guy, (who lived in a different state, to make matters worse). but the week that i moved on, i found this awesome guy that is totally new and awesome.... and i realize that i really like him a lot. he goes to the same college as me, and i think he might like me to.... he asked me to go to dinner w/ him the other night, and then invited me to his boy's night... so i was the only girl.. which was fun.
sooo... the moral of my story is.... you should move on. it hurts sooo bad to like someone who doesn't like you back. i wasted my high school years on one guy, while i could have been viewing the world in a different way. i know it's hard.... but try your best to move on. it sucks and it's hard... but if you really try hard... you can forget about him.... or at least shove him wayyyy to the back of your mind. i guarentee you'll feel better. good luck.....i hope that helped. : )
2006-10-30 14:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by mayso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for future references...when u feel your beginning ot haev a crush on someone...find otu weather or not he worth your tiem in the first place so you could get over him before any serious feelings develop..the sooner, the better....czu after when the serious "i really like him...i wanna go out with him" phrases kick in..it harder to let those feelings go....
you can't really control who u like and don't like...it just feelings that kick in and you can't really sotp them..it hard to....i think you should continue talking to guys...act like yourself...and w.e happends..happends..if you end up liking a guy...well thats a bit of a diff story but you do...if you don't..you don't....
2006-10-30 15:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by lil_flirt_57<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that person has no interest in you, there is no point for you to
plunge yourself into relationship and get hurt eventually. Just
treat him or her like normal friends and everything will be alright.
2006-10-30 14:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not pointless.......the ones that don't like you then just aren't the one for you and are probably missing out ......the ones you date that are asses are at least teaching you some self awareness .....what you don't want and what you deserve
2006-10-30 14:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and the right guy will find you. You don't need to be chasing after someone.
2006-10-30 14:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋