Now be honest, why??? why does it seem like you ladies all like the jerk, the @**hole, the guy that will cheat on you and treat you bad?? Is it just something that you cant control and end up being with the guy that cheats you bad?? do some of you need the drama and trauma?? I hate it cuz ive had a few exes say your a sweetheart, your too much of a nice guy and then dump me...
2006-10-30 14:36:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girls like the guy to be forceful with them. i answered one of these questions earlier and said that girls (especially the ambitious ones) lead their lives being the leader and sometimes it feels good to have a guy "show you whos boss" so to speak. abuse is far, and girls too often get tangled up in it, but its better than a guy whos... boring... keep being sweet, but be agressfull some times too.... jus for fun. after all girls arnt made of glass, so dont feel like your going to shatter them.
2006-10-30 14:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Amyscastle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friends and I separate guys into two very generalized categories "the sharks" and "the dolphins". I have to admit I go for the sharks...he's the guy who drinks too much, doesn't show up when he says he's going to....and so on . The dolphin is Mr. Wonderful, the nice guy who follows through and treats you like a princess. I personally like the shark, he's not ALWAYS an ******, and being with that type of guy is action packed. Too sweet is boring to me, it's doesn't seem natural....at least not in my world. If a guy acts like his world revolves around me, I'm a goner! Now if the shark and dolphin were to mate......then perhaps I would consider marriage!! Good luck and ps..I'm a relationship failure and taking my advice on anything would not be wise !!!!!!! Good question though...
2006-10-30 15:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by T-Bone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you nice guys are not the only ones that feel this way. i sometimes think why is it all the nice guys end up dating beootches?? We woman dont think "hmmm, i think i will go out with a jerk that will cheat on me" These men are usually very charming and nice and treat us wonderful to our faces, and then boom, out of the blue they are doin someone else and we are heartbroken. I have been with 2 who cheated and the thing is, they treated me wonderful up till then, told me they loved me and treated me like a queen, we never fought and i thought we really had a great relationship.
so how are us women supposed to know who is really nice and who is not???
2006-10-30 14:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by JR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my ex and I first started dating he came off to be the nicest and charming guys I have ever met, after dating a few months though, I started seeing his true colors. He was horrible. he verbally abused me and my family, and I will never forgive him for that, or myself because I still stood with him anyways. Now I'm seeing someone again, and he is just awesome, I hope things work out, because I believe he is a real decent man, so no I do not like boys who are jerks, coldhearted, and to oppionated fore their own good,
2006-10-30 14:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lin_82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that all ladies want the bad guy....but they want a challenge, and the fun guy. Most people (male and female) are good at putting on a face in the beginning of a relationship. I do think that women emotionally tie there hearts more quickly and deeply than guys do...and keep looking for that guy that they fell for in the beginning. We are a all mothers at heart...meaning that we think we can change the negative sides of mens personalities and bad habits.
2006-10-30 14:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because better the devil you know than the devil you don't Women will stay with a jerk than worry about if the new guy will be an honest and upright guy not to mention they men they are with probably threaten and beat the women down.
2006-10-30 14:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:-/
what the?? That isn't me. Those r the stupid girl who date because of looks and just want to make out only.
Many people, like me, arn't like that. I am not gona date ill I am a little bit older. I had people who would want to date me. Some r jerks but cute, and some r weird. But no. Even if I did, I would see if he is smart, value, nice, charming, ect.
2006-10-30 14:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by kool_gal_8888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Option 1: The guy is super hot and he became a jerk because he could and girls are still attracted to his looks.
Option 2: Jerky guys display the confidence of a "hot guy"
2006-10-30 14:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lena P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like jerks I like guys who are true, honest and know how to treat a lady. Those girls who like jerks are trash and really don't want true love they just want sex nothing more than a romp in the hay.
2006-10-30 14:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by memeemelissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we all PICK the a**holes, we just seemed to get them. Me personally, I love the nice, sweet, thoughtful man over idiots any day. I married one of them, he treats me like a queen. You keep looking, tons of women out there are looking for a man like you. Don't change.
2006-10-30 14:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋