I have met this guy on the internet about a month ago. We just started talking on the phone about a week an half ago. Now, do you think its to soon to meet face to face? If its not soon, where's a good place to meet him? I know it should be in a well lite area, with a lot of people around. But where in Chicago and you do such a thing? Thanks! :)
2006-10-30 14:40:22 · 23 answers · asked by denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your timing is just OK.
How about in a restaurant????
2006-10-30 14:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Haven't you heard enough about people meeting on the net and then turn up missing or dead. I know it may seem exciting but consider the dangerous realities of this world and the perverted b.s. some men do to women. Statistically, I know that Chicago has a pretty high crime rate dependant on where you live. Either give it more time or bring a friend or some friends to double date or just look out. Give someone his name and phone number and how you met. Also tell them where you are going to be if they cannot be present. Last but not least, do not go over to his house or invite him to yours. Men respect women that respect themselves.
2006-10-30 14:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by mz. t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very good place to meet people, only save the chatting for email or 360. I've met some really awesome people here and we've become quite friendly with emails and 360's. Here is not for chatting so they say. LOL
2016-03-19 02:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Aline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not in chicago, but its never really too soon to meet, most blind dates meet first time with never talking. you just have to remember the rules of it. go somewhere early evening time to even late after noonish, so when the date stops there are still people round to see you. well lit area of coarse and busy enough to not be alone but alone enough to talk. and never go to the restroom and leave an open drink, you just never know. and also you could just do a coffee first date. that way if its not going well you can end it, without still waiting for you dinner to come. a coffee date is more casual too, a first date dinner date makes you ponder for hours of what to wear to not be over or under dressed. Book store coffee places are nice, cus if the coffee time is going well you can walk roun dthe bookstore and compare interests in person, which could lead to an outside day time walk thru town. make sure you drive seperate, and meet him there, at least for the first time, keep your cell phone with ya or phone change. i know i might sound parinoid but its getting crazy out there. good luck and i hope you guys work out
2006-10-30 14:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, whoa, whoa. are you positive that this is like, a true...well, you just have to make sure that this is a real person or a person that isn't trying to kill you or anything. i know that's stupid, but it's so possible. think about things like that before you want to go meet him.
also, make sure that a friend or a parent or someone you trust is around, just in case!
remember, there have been countless reports on murders over the internet. i have had a guy come over when i was in middle school and tell me about he once disgusted himself as a girl, and started talking to another boy. then, over time, he found out that this boy wasn't what he thought he was, it was an internet murder. be careful.
2006-10-30 14:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd personally meet him at the park and take a nice stroll =D Then I'd go grab a pizza with him =D
Note: I said him cuz I was talking in forms of you =P
2006-10-30 14:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lincon park zoo on the weekend with lots of people,starbucks,anywhere where you know there are lost of people let a friend know where you will be better yet have a plan you will check in with her or your parents and if you don't check in by phone then they call the cops. Make sure they know his name and where he is from. get his cell number test it to make sure it is his number and give it to said friend. I personally won't let a friend meet someone alone for the first time. I went on a blind date and on top of all that i brought my dog...if she who loes all growls at the person then they are not for me. Just be safe.
2006-10-30 14:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by ldygrnleaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A coffee shop!
Well lit, lots of people, no judgement - impairing alcohol.
Plus, in a coffee shop, it's totally normal to run into a friend, (if you go to the bathroom and call if you find out the date is a total catastrophy).
2006-10-30 14:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A coffee shop during the day or afternoon. Tell a friend the name of the guy you are meeting and set up a call time so your friend can check on you.
2006-10-30 14:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Just a cool and simple Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go some place that is well lite but nice and make sure you have a friend in the background just in case anthing goes down with this person because not tell who this person may really be but i hope is it someone good for you but, really tell someone where you are going just for safety good luck with that :)
2006-10-30 14:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by Ghost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a coffee shop or restaurant. make sure you tell someone when you are going to meet this new fellow. give them his email address, phone number, name, picture (if you have it), where you are meeting and any other info you have. have them call you 10 minutes into the meeting so you have an "out".
good luck - be safe, be sweet!
2006-10-30 14:43:36 · answer #11 · answered by annie - rainbow goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋