Ok, there's this guy and he's new. He's my friends friend so he talks to me. We were walking and he was making fun of me to a point where i wanted to slap him so hard so i wuz like wtf and jus left to go talk to Chantal, Bria, Jazmine,Tanya, All of them. Then when we walked into the cafeteria he said he was sorry and he wanted me to buy him food. I was like no that's really stupid of you to ask me that after you made fun of me. I'm not sure if he's in foster care or something but something about him makes me say yes. I DON'T even like HIM!! what is wrong with me??? I've bought him lunch for a week and i don't see him to stop asking me. So what do i say to him when he tells me to buy him lunch when i see him tomorrow?? He even told some guys i talk to that i'm his bit*h!!!! I went up to him and cursed him and finally slapped him out but he always says sorry.
2006-10-30 14:45:34 · 17 answers · asked by . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just ignore him and don't feel sorry for him anymore he's a creep
2006-10-30 14:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy him his lunch. Sounds like he wants to take advantage of the fact that you are a nice person. Sorry is just buying him more lunches. This kind of behavior is for the birds. He has no excuses for the way he acts or talks about you. Tell him you will not buy his lunches anymore. STICK TO IT
2006-10-30 22:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by annie_bananie066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him point blank you are not going to be his door mat. Geez girl, he insults you right off and you buy his lunch everyday. Do you know the word being USED . I'm surprised he does'nt have you down on all fours doing all his bidding for him. He's only sorry because he knows you fall for it . Tell him to take a hike. Or do you like being what he told his friends .
2006-10-30 23:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Fantum Slave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marissa just ignore him and don't feel sorry for that fellow.try to think your self and be a good company for urself.Cazz this fellow is there with u 4 some time but you have to be there whole life with you,so washout these thoughts 4m ur mind.If u did it , i feel great.
2006-10-30 23:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by zakeer h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course hes sorry after the fact your his bread and butter literally speaking ,he sounds immature and ungrateful and I would stay far away from him.....and you call him a friend ?friends dont treat each other that way.and as for calling you his *****??????? how much more disrespect are you willing to subject your self to?tell the ingrate to take a hike and find someother sucker because you deserve better,
2006-10-30 22:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by bbyccboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S USING U.BE FIRM.Y DO U HAVE TO BUY HIM LUNCH?CANT HE DO HIS?NEXT TIME HE ASKS SAY NO AND STICK TO IT EVEN IF HE APOLOGISES.U MUST HAVE UNDERSTOOD BY NOW THAT HE IS NOT A PERSON TO TRUST AND BELEIVE.BEWARE OF SUCH PEOPLE IN FUTURE.NEXT TIME HE TRIES TO MEET U SLAM THE DOOR IN HIS FACE AND WARN HIM VERY FIRMLY THAT U ARE NOT INTERESTED WITH HIS ASSOCIATION.BE BRAVE AND BOLD WHEN U DO IT.BE CONFIDENT OF URSELF.
2006-10-31 06:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Haritha S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say avoid this guy and say that he needs to find another girl to use and abuse but you got better things to do with your time and that apologizing over and over doesn't cut it in order for an apology to be sincere you have to mean it and then change your actions.
2006-10-30 22:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have become his property. Like a lion protecting his pride of lionesses. You need to stop obeying him and tell him to go away. He feels he controls you, and if you let him get away with it, he will continue to do so. Stop doing it! And tell him NO!
2006-10-30 23:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by St. Louis Rams Chick 1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is past is past and forget about it. In future if he ask you to
buy him lunch again, please tell him that you are very busy and the best way is to get away from him. Don't you think that his
altitude is somewhat thick skin and abnormal?
2006-10-30 22:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young and immature. No one can make you buy them lunch. Say No and mean it. Sounds like you like drama in your life.
2006-10-30 22:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl shouldn't have to buy a guy lunch...he's pretty rude =| Tell him NO =D
2006-10-30 22:47:44 · answer #11 · answered by 1 Sailor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋