The report came back unsubstantiated. I did nothing wrong but she is out to get me. What can I do? I have a copy of the report from the state. This needs to stop for the sake of my kids!
2006-10-30 14:45:26 · 16 answers · asked by paco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, keep a journal of all events. Do it now. You may want it if you are going for custody of the children. This is a nasty time. I don't think legally you can do anything, she has the right to report you. That is why the journal is important, because it can show a judge what is really going on in the battlefield and strip her of all credibility. Good luck and I hope all the nonsense goes away quickly.
2006-10-30 14:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with a lawyer. Reports are serious and even though they came back unsubstantiated... you now have a record of being reported.
A lawyer would be in a much better position to provide you with information as to what you can do.
2006-10-30 15:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is nothing wrong going on in your home, then have no fear...the state will keep records to back you up. Ask for a mediation session with her and explain that this is hurting the kids. If that does not succeed, then go to a lawyer and ask for advice on how to proceed.
2006-10-30 14:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may want to wish to think about transferring a touch farther away, in all likelihood to a distinct state so she doesn't have such undemanding get correct of entry to to harrass you. Why do not you document for finished criminal custody? sounds like the joint custody association is in basic terms providing her an chance to placed you and the youngsters by hell continuously. it really is not contained in the youngster's pursuits and that i'm particular the courtroom would agree. this would furnish you with the capacity to really flow on such as your existence -- to a distinct state.
2016-12-05 09:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch her closely. She could do more things to hurt you. Call your attorney can get a restraining order on her, inquire about the CFS involvrment with your attorney as well. My xhusband and his wife did the same thing on me. It was unfounded as well. Like you said you don't need this nor does your children.
2006-10-30 14:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did the same thing to me when I left him, my daughter was 6 at the time, he didn't stop doing that until my daughter was 21 and she moved out into her own house. As soon as he found out she moved he stopped calling them on me and stop bothering me. I turned him in every time he turned me in and there was not a thing I could do about it.
2006-10-30 15:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult an attorney. Do you have custody of the kids? Do you pay child support, or does she? There are a lot of factors to consider, and only a lawyer can help you there.
2006-10-30 14:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by shojo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing nothing wrong then you have nothing to worry about. If she keeps calling them and they keep coming out to your house and finding nothing wrong pretty soon they will catch on and she could get in trouble for what she is doing. Give it time. She will eventually hang herself.
2006-10-30 15:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughters husband has an ex wife who does the same thing to them, and although they never find a trace of any neglect, she still continues this, because she is angry that the man she rejected found someone else and is happy, while her life is full of trouble and hearache.
2006-10-30 14:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are Innocent and have a clean conscience then you have nothing to worry about, try filing a restraining order against her if you are constantly being harassed for no reason!?
2006-10-30 15:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋