i know what you are saying i've been through the same thing.. but if your thinking he is pressuring you to do so much and moving fast he's not worth the trouble.. but either that or just talk to him about it and just be like hey can we take it a little bit slower.. if he's a good guy he will understand and respect what you are thinking and will agree to take it slow
2006-10-30 14:59:02
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answered by rockchalk2012 1
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Unfortunately at that high school age, they really want your sweet lovins...lol, well I guess at any age they do (oh those guys) but in high school, they're still pretty immature about it. My advice to you hun, from personal experience, is to NOT move fast. Don't be a married couple 6 weeks into the relationship without being married, it'll all crash and burn. If you're really interested in the guy, take your time, enjoy hanging out, keep your guard up, and don't give your heart (or body) away! Get to know eachother like a LOT. It takes time though. I thought I knew my ex-boyfriend after a year, turns out I didn't know him at ALL. His angry abusive self...egh. All you can do though is take care of yourself, don't compromise yourself, say no for you, you have no control over HIM. Don't make out with him all the time, don't engage in sexual things with him, especially not after a week. Not even 2 weeks, 3 weeks. That will give him the idea that you're wanting to move right along at a stupidly fast pace just like him in the relationship, which basically means getting that sweet lovins I mentioned earlier. Some guys wanna move fast in the relationship and they want to be with you as though it's been 2 years, even if it's only been a month, because with that comes more PLEEEEASAH! Watch yaself and just have fun, without giving him what he wants.
2006-10-30 15:04:21
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answered by Anonymous
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i've got faith you are able to ask this question as much as you like. You losers who do no longer in basic terms like the question why are you even replying to this question how stupid are you. ok Im a woman yet Im nevertheless going to allow you know answer. Its distinctive strokes for various persons, the terrific element which you will do certainly is ask that guy what he likes.
2016-10-21 00:51:27
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answered by ? 4
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Don't do it if you don't want to. Don't t hink that if you don't do it he will think you're a baby or not mature enough. A week is definitely not enough to get to know someone. Wait, unless you want to risk getting your heart and reputation broken.
2006-10-30 14:58:24
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answered by maya 4
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Be careful girl. I've been a guy all my life and could tell you what he expects but my momma raised me to be a gentleman.
2006-10-30 14:58:51
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answered by rudee 3
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Majority likes imorral things ~ a very bad approach.
2006-10-30 14:55:51
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answered by MY Regards to All 4
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it varies on the guy, just try to establish a good communication balance with him and u'll find out what hes lookin for
2006-10-30 15:22:40
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answered by aceofhearts0004 2
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Don't date in high school..it's a waste of time!
2006-10-30 15:00:45
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answered by CustomBentley 2
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sex, if you don't give it to him then he'll find someone who will. Sorry to speak the truth, but it is what it is.
2006-10-30 16:55:30
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answered by jh361 5
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he thinks that u r cute, that he'll be so lucky to have u as his date.
2006-10-30 14:58:28
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answered by shin c 1
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