Is it wrong for a husband and wife to invite someone else into their bedroom for just a night? How do you respond to your close friend about a soon to be mistake? or is it not a mistake they are making?
2006-10-30 16:35:22 · 18 answers · asked by navyprincess3476 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its a huge mistake!! just because they both consent doesn't make it right. its still adultery. when you get married you exchange vows that is supposed to make your marriage bed sacred. even though they may both consent, ultimately there will be serious consequences because it will definitely cause confusion & resentment later on.it may sound fun, kinky, exciting.....or whatever but its wrong and could surely destroy the marriage. is it worth it? they will never look at each other the same. all they will be able to see is the other giving themself to someone else
2006-10-30 17:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by huneygrl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not a good idea. My neighbors tried this not too long ago and they ended up drugging the wife so the husband and this woman could sleep together then eventually the cops got icalled by the wife when she found out and it was a huge mess. I don't think their marriage will be the same. It will end up not being for just one night. Also when you get married you say your vows and are morally supposed to only be with each other for eternity, you mess up your vows when you comit adultry even if your spouse is there.
2006-10-31 00:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer0208 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes this is cheating. don't be confused about this just b/c they both agree to this. they are both present while the other spouse is cheating. i guess you could say that this marriage is to the point where they dont care anymore. but you can tell your friend what you think but in the end its her desdcisoin and if she chooses to behave this way she will also choose the consequence that comes with it. and you can bet there will be a big consequence. they want other ppl so maybe there marriage is in serious trouble. i guess you just have to respect her decision.
2006-10-31 00:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just depends on the couple. Some people can do that without ever having any problems. But there's no way I could. I have a big jealous bone in my body. LOL. I think you should let them do what they want to do and let them deal with the consequences later.
2006-10-31 00:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong to invite someone in your bedroom, unless there's absolutely no place in the house to sleep in and the person sleeps on the sofa/mattress on the floor.
2006-10-31 00:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see it as a mistake. It is a good thing that their trying new things in the bedroom. sex might not be the most important thing in a relationship.but its still very important. Sometime you need to spice up your relationship.There are many of ways to spice up your relationship but that is the way they chose.
2006-10-31 00:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not morally wrong so much as a big mistake. Jealousy will rear it's ugly head.
2006-10-31 00:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Bible it is. It human, no. That depend on the couple itself. When this couple has an open mind concept in sharing their s** life with others, I think, they should know what is going on and the third party that was invited has to informed in advance with his or her (Yes) to it. All this has no worng or right to it as we, human.
2006-10-31 00:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely yes, your bedroom is just for you and him. Whatta ya going to do if this person has a side you don't see and wants again and again or if the husband does you are getting into swingers.
2006-10-31 00:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just distance myself from that topic and let them learn from their own mistakes because she will most likely get amad at you if you say something that she does not want to hear
2006-10-31 00:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋