and i am just so jealous i get upset when he leaves for work or late coming home.if a girl talks to him i get mad how can i stop being so jealopus and why am i jealous
2006-10-30 16:36:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thid is probably the first serious relationship that you have been in and that is normal. You love him and are afraid that you will lose him so you want to know where he is every minute of the day. You really need to start trusting him more because if you keep on with this insecurity you will only push him away and into someone elses arms. Just put your trust into him ans believe whole heartly he will not hurt you or deceive you. As the relationship progresses you will start to have more confidence in yourself and the relationship and things will be better than ever. Just put all those jealousy issues behind you because they will only cause unwanted problems in your relationship.
2006-10-30 16:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely need to work on getting your jealousy under control. It will make you crazy and hurt your relationship with your boyfriend. Most of the time when a girl is jealous it is because she is lacking self-esteem. But there is no reason to worry. You have been together for almost ten months. He obviously wants to be with you and you need to be confident in your relationship. Sit down and reflect what are you insecure about, has something happened? Once you have figured out the source of your jealousy you can go from there!
2006-10-31 00:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just got to stop this. Jealousy is that Green Eyed Monster that will break up a relationship just as quick as it got
started.
If a man is going to cheat there is nothing that you can do or say
to prevent it. Living a life worrying about what your man is doing
is NO WAY to live. There are plenty of men that will love and
respect you, and be completely faithful.
This is my rule. My husband may be married but he didn't go
blind, so if he looks, thats ok, if he talks to a women, thats ok. I
know at the end of the day right where he is going to be, and that
is home with me. Goodness girl, just because he is with you
doesn't mean he has to be dead to the world.
2006-10-31 00:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by lavada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people have jealous feelings when young.
They insecure about their place in this world.
You need to relax and ask your self, does he want to be faithful to me?
Ask him, do you intend to be faithful to me?
You should be able to tell from his voice and his face.
You no want man who not be faithful, you deserve man come home to only YOU.
But, if you rant at man and make him feel bad, maybe he stop coming home????
Stop being jealous, angry wench no fun to be with.
UGH
2006-10-31 00:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ye Olde Caveman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r insecure
low self esteem
read Dr Phill
2006-10-31 00:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lil insecure, maybe you've been hurt befor and are afraid to be hurt again... try being a lil more open and relaxed, if hes your real love he wont play...
2006-10-31 00:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by 约瑟夫 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all comes down to one thing..... TRUST !!!!!! either you do or you dont....... if you dont, then I have to be honest with ya, he gonna walk if you keep this up... how would you feel if it was you being treated like that ?? think about it !!!!!!!!!!! God bless
2006-10-31 01:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋