we ar't getting along very well and he keeps saying he is leaving but never does. he says he loves me but can't stand me. he says that i throw such a fit not wanting him to leave he stays cause he fells bad. if he wants to go why won't he just leave or is he playing mind games. anything i do is never good enough for him but don't get me wrong i have a really bad temper to
2006-10-30 16:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by butter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you two kids finish playing,be sure to put away your toys.
2006-10-30 16:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't have a healthy relationship. Do you want to be with someone that keeps telling you these horrible things and that he wants to leave you? It can't make you feel good knowing he has all these negative thoughts. He probably isn't physically leaving you because he doesn't want to cause a problem but has he already emotionally left you. Maybe him leaving would be the best...
2006-10-31 00:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me as if he wants to have his freedom but doesn't want YOU to have your's. next time he brings up the subject show him the door and tell him to never come back. That will solve it all.
2006-10-31 01:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will always be a reason for everything!!!! best thing to do is to talk to him and tell him to be honest and tell you frankly what does he really want... if he want to let go of you, you should accept it with all your heart, anyway it's his lost not yours...
2006-10-31 00:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you both need to move on...let him leave, or you leave-this does not sound like a caring relationship...
2006-10-31 00:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is a 50% on both,i did the same thing too
2006-10-31 00:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Pro.L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEXT TIME HE TELL YOU THAT HE WANT TO BREAK UP THEN WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS CALL HIS BLUFF,
SO THAT HE WANT KEEP TALK THIS NONSENSE. THEN'
YOU WILL KNOW WHAT THE DEAL IS, LIKE THEY SAY
PUT UP OR SHUT UP.
2006-10-31 00:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cory is that you?
2006-10-31 00:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋