I have a friend that i have know for about 3 yrs and were very good friends me and her use to skip alot and we have the same study hall for 3 yrs so we know eachother well and i have a GF too and she knows this and how good of friends we are and is ok with it. She just had a bady not to long ago and was really wanting me to go see her and the baby and i did and she keeps tellin me that ill be the babys fav. uncle and stuff. I really care about her shes like a sister to me but how can you tell someone that without freaking them or how do i even know she really considers me a good friends. (she says im her best guy friend) but theres just been alot going on and id like to thank her for alwas being there but i dont wanna be creepy any ideas? i just dont wanna ruin are friendship.
2006-10-30 17:24:13 · 16 answers · asked by empire_942 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dude, everything you said was fantastic and sounded sincere.
And you wouldn't freak her out at all, she'd probably really appreciate.... she considers you her kids uncle for christ sake!!
You're thinking and over analyzing too much. You will not ruin your friendship by telling thanking her, for her always being there for you. Woman are sensative and emotional, she'll love it!!
Never be afraid to tell people what you think - unless your at a pub, and there's a really big, fat, scary looking, bald guy who looks like he sh*t his pants. Keep those thoughts to yourself.
2006-10-30 17:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then dont do anything, just keep enjoying it and keep being ther for each other. Sounds to me like a very special relationship. I had a best guy friend for a long time. My fiance liked him too, they played pool together and we would all 3 hang out. When he got dumped he would call me and the three of us would go out to the bar and stuff. Anyway, emotionally our relationship was very deep. He even told my fiance how much he loved me and that no friendship or relationship between two people could nevercompare or be explained as was the relationship we had. Tragically he was killed in a car wreck last year 3 days before Christmas. I will never get over it. Cherish the friendship. Just enjoy.
2006-10-31 01:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by twysty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best advice to you is to not play games with her. She probably feels that you are a really good friend, that is why she is saying you'll be the favorite uncle. Tell her how you feel. Let her know you truly appreciate the friendship, and tell her that if she needs anything you will be there. She just had a baby, she needs all the support she can get. And she needs to know that she is appreciated and that she can count on you. I hope everything works out.
2006-10-31 01:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by There can only be one - (ANSWER) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she feels the same way, chances are she'll appreciate your comment and support, this could bring you closer. If she's saying that her baby will consider you her favorite uncle then its obvious that she already thinks of you as family.
2006-10-31 01:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she said you will be the baby's favorite uncle it sounds like she thinks of you as a brother. I wouldnt be afraid to tell you how you feel. She seems to already know.
2006-10-31 01:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she knows you are just good friends...but don't talk to her too much...this way she won't be expecting you to contact her..you have a girlfriend now and the less you contact your friend the better...friends contact each other months at a time or whenever...make her a distant friend...you don't need to tell her how you feel...she knows...
2006-10-31 01:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just bring a baby gift and a little adult gift that doesnt have a baby theme for your friend and give her a big hug and say "your the best friend ever, stay that way, dont ever change" and leave it at that.. goodluck and congrats for having such a trusted friend that likes you a lot
2006-10-31 01:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mintee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then don't ruin it. Be a friend and tell her that you really are lucky to have her as a friend. Include her husband in any praise. You know what to do because you are asking us to help you so you know what's up.
2006-10-31 01:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by FrogDog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one thing that workes in these cases are letters because there you can put all your thoughts together and have a chance to pick your words.....im sure after the she reads the letter you both will have a conversation about it and well you can go more in depth that way.. and i think thats probably the safest way too
2006-10-31 01:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by MR.E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy her something cute and useful now that she's a mama, and tell her in the gift card that she's special, like a sister to you.
She'll mention it if she wants to talk about that.
2006-10-31 01:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋