If you do not live with your partner and they invite a person of the opposite sex (an old freind) to stay with them for a month (in your absence), are you ok with that?
2006-10-30 23:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by Triestobewise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
an ex girlfriend,no,,a GOOD friend,,as long as i wasnt excluded,,fine.but i would also feel that normal life should continue even with her there,,yes,they may want some time together just as friends are entitled to but he also has a girlfriend and as the girlfriend is a part of his life i would at least expect to meet her,,go out as a 3some,,or even a 4some for comforts sake. judge by what you see and know,,not by what you think.
2006-10-30 23:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT! Inviting a person of the opposite sex, an old friend, to stay for one night or a month is NOT OKAY. Your partner is asking for trouble.
2006-10-30 23:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Daphne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u need to tell him that she needs to leave or he. Or you have to spend as much time over there as possible but not enough to look like a "stalker" but just stay around him more then usual. Then like just talk to her about it aks her/him if he has feelings for ur partner then take it from there. If she says yes though u can handl it just by talkin to ur partner and telling him either she goes or i do because i am not here and i don't know what u and her are doing when i am not around. Then he is gonna be like u don't trust me huh and then u be like i do but i don't know her that well and i don't trust her around u. Then make him choose if he picks to let her stay then u are better off with out him. And don't beat ur self up over it move on and be happy!
2006-10-30 23:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I would be ok with that. I guess they feel pretty secure in your relationship. It seems like they would have talked to you about it first to get your feelings on it. If not, I think it is a selfish thing to do. I would want to be included in a decision like this. Also, I would expect to be a part of whatever they do....like go out or whatever.
2006-10-30 23:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good situation. Talk to your partner about your feelings. A true test of trust.
2006-10-30 23:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by WyoHunter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a month? hahaha. if i had a good relationship w/that ex, enough to stay w/her for a month (or for her to stay w/me), i would DEFINATLY try to sleep w/her within ah HOUR not a month. UNLESS she now looks and weighs like a whale.
u cant ask for a recent pic of her, so pass on the issue. say "no" to ex girlfriends.
2006-10-30 23:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nick A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont quite understand-in your absence? and so you werent asked for your opinion, if you love something set it free.if it dont come back-lool around.
2006-10-30 23:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by swashbuckler82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as the threesom is good yes
2006-10-30 23:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by mohamed jihad dirka dirka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good chance eh?
2006-10-30 23:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by indike111 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no asking for problems
2006-10-30 23:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by rseverclear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋