Even after your over a ex who was serious do you ever wonder where they are or what their doing?

Question

I mean, I don't have feelings for him in that sorta of way but he used to be such a good friend of mine, I find myself wondering often if he had a good life so far.

Answer 1

I guess its only natural especially if you spent a lot of time with that person, or if you were together for quite some time. You probably had some good times and obviously some bad or else you wouldn't be where you are today. Naturally, you think about that person if they had meant anything to you. But, just remember to keep moving on. Some people can do the separation thing and still be friends, its entirely up to you. Take care.

Answer 2

Funny how I used to do that every now and then
only until recently,I found myself wondering about his whereabout
and that old feeling just came alive again.

I mean Ive got over him but you know,its good to keep sweet memories alive in our heart sometimes.

I suppose this is what most people call it ''missing someone''.
Its normal to wonder, out of curiosity.

Just to see and feel how far we've come from the past,
sometimes we need to look back to seize the present ;)

Answer 3

Geez let me see. I think of my old girl friends in HS and ex athletes I have played with in HS and college. I think of old bosses and ppl I have met along the way.

At times I even go the extra effort and look them up and make contact with them and reestablish updated info on their life happenings. Have no enemies even tho some have not acted very decent and even have contacted some of them to see how they have changed of life has treated them.

Curiosity and passion for others draw me to old aquintances.

Answer 4

I wonder that too a lot about one of my ex's, and it makes me mad that even though I would never want to be with him again, he could still at least show he cared and maybe wonder what I'm doing. But he doesn't so I should just stop.

Answer 5

If the relationship was serious, yes. i wonder what happened to them. in particular, if we were both serious, its like the movies, u see him (her for me) and u wonder "i coulda been her" and then u either feel good, cause she weighs like 200plbs or like s*** cause she is like a gazilions and she looks like Cathrene Zeta Jones. But chances are he will trade down than u, than trade up. U r better off.

Answer 6

If your Ex was your first true love then you will never forget and you will often think about the what ifs for the rest of your life. I think its just natural.

Answer 7

It depends on how serious an ex she was (for me). There is one of my ex's whom I have recently wondered what she is doing, but thats only one person. My other ex's I couldnt give a flying (ahem) about.

Answer 8

Rarely but yes the feelings were real and intence they don't just go away. I usually call him and ask him how he is. Or sometimes he calls me.It happens once every few years.

Answer 9

Well,

Would you have asked this question if pamela anderson was you new girl friend?

Probably not, Man, if you upgrade you'll forget about her very quickly. Focus your energy on meeting other ladies

Answer 10

Its only natural especially if you were with this person for a long time.Just because your no longer together doesn't mean you can no longer care about them or think about them sometimes.