the healthy way of loving and having sex with your spouse .and why couple having less sex after some year of m

Answer 1

When you first meet someone special you create a chemistry and lust is usually on the cards. After marriage or any long term relationship the lust kind of wears off as you gain respect towards eachother. The sex isn't just sex anymore, its making love and becomes more special but less often.

Answer 2

Let me repeat telling a story. A wife's incurable migraine was at last cured by a physician. The couple were very happy. After a few months, the husband started losing interest in sex. Owing to wife's persuasion, the husband agreed to have a consultation with that physician who cured the migraine of the wife. The physician patiently heard them and at the end told the woman that he would like to give counselling to the husband in private. Hence the wife waited outside the consultation room. After the counselling session, the couple returned home. Since that night, the husband was a superb performer in sex. But one thing. Before coming to bed every time, the husband will rush to the bathroom and spend sometime there. Once he comes to bed, he will be simply superb! The wife was happy on the one hand and curious too on the other hand about his behaviour of rushing into the bathroom before coming to bed. Hence one night when he went inside the bathroom, she peeped inside through the ventilator. There her husband was standing before the bathroom mirror and self-hypnotising: "She is not my wife, she is not my wife, she is not ....."!

You can yourself make out the moral of this story.

Answer 3

It all depends how much work you're prepared to put in.
Yes sex can dwindle as the years go by, usually because of stresses with money, children, work, unspoken issues.
It doesnt have to be like that though. Just because you're married doesnt me you have to stop dating eachother, and trying to impress eachother. After all you did once fancy the pants off your partner, so just try to remember that feeling and work together at finding out what eachother's needs are.
So your partner might have chunked a few pounds on, look at yourself in the mirror, I bet not many of us look the same as we did when we first met, so learn to love and get passionate about the changes in eachother.
Little things like booking a hotel for the weekend, in different names, pay in cash and have nice little affair together.
It just takes imagination.

Answer 4

OH !!! GO away talk for yourself , not every marriage has sex that ends after a while , My hubby and I have a great sex life at LEAST 3 times a week and we still feel like teenagers 35yrs after meeting , We are not rare either we have loads of mates that are the same , so going into marriage thinking that all is going to end soon is crap , you make marriage what it is???? MAKE IT WORK!!! And it will.

Answer 5

Well, the routine sex can be made interesting if you start treating your wife as a gf. See the effect once you have done what you used to do together what you did before marriage.

Answer 6

I have been with my husband for 7 years 5 of them married my advice is be experimental cause if you do the same old every time it becomes boring and no satisfaction. Little things like a bit of romance, different positions, different places, toys,games, food there is so many different things you can do.

Answer 7

There is a debate going on regarding this situation. Recent studies have shown that during the beginning stages of a relationship that we give off lots of pheromones that influence our prospective partners. This pheromone release is reduced over time as we become more comfortable with our partners. I tend to agree. I also believe that as you become more accustomed to being and living with your mate the need for sex is reduced and the satisfaction from other forms of affection such as cuddling, are increased and become sufficient.

Answer 8

married couples need to be adventurous when it comes to sex,you cant surprise your partner will your old routine cause shes seen it before! There is nothing wrong with have sex in other places too.Show your partner the love and passion for her and she'll be more open with you.

happy sh*gging!

Answer 9

When you are young in the relationship, you hav e theneed to express your love and feelings more. When you have been together longer, You already know how the other feels for you and you dont need to be shown as much. You have complete confidence in the relationship.

Answer 10

my husband and i can go a month without it, it doesnt mean we dont love each other, we have other things going on at the time thats all, and when we do its as good as it always was. Marriage and love are not based on sex.