Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

What is worse?

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2006-11-03 01:57:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how can a man married for 24 yrs have an affair with some girl who is 21 he is 42.......after the affair was found out he said how sorry he was etc etc...but he works with this girl ....i said you need to quit your job i cant handle knowing you will see her everyday.....he said ok at first then his tune changed... sitting bills piling up etc etc....when he didnt quit i told him he had to leave my heart breaking the entire time...he did and a month later moved in with this girl....its been 6-7 months now we hav e 4 kids 3 of which under the age of 18 they have been affected by this as well but kids adapt well....now when he and i talk which is seldom he hasa demeanor about him that is nasty..its like we never had a history why...i ask the kids if he talks of me and they say no..how is this possible after 24 yrs does this girl he has none only a short time mean that mch to him...he feels no guilt nor remorse....how?

2006-11-03 01:57:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

With so many marriages ending up in divorce are we looking for the wrong things? What really stabilises a relationship and makes it last? What is the key to a happy married life?

2006-11-03 01:55:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

MY dad is in Va and my mom and i are in Wyo. i am afraid that no one will like me cause i come from such a small place

2006-11-03 01:55:19 · 18 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Friends

How would you react if your husband doesnt allow you to go out, only with his permition ? How would you react if he doesnt accept "NO" for an answer when he is asking you to do something?and how would you react if your husband is checking even your e-mail box? he becomes jelous even when i am talking with a female( not a male !) friend on the net and forbade me from talking with her. I cant go on a walk even with my own brother without his permition. What should I do?

2006-11-03 01:53:55 · 25 answers · asked by Reema_AlShammeri 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 01:53:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i been so scared of french kissing like i thought i would do it wrong... but finally i did it, but the problem is i didnt feel anything nice. like whats so great abour kissing? i thought it would be a really nice feeling cuz thats what people say...

2006-11-03 01:52:12 · 21 answers · asked by girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 01:51:17 · 10 answers · asked by arun joseph 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 01:50:15 · 20 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship for about 5 years with someone who did nothing but treat me poorly. I still can't understand why I let this happen to me. Any suggestions?

2006-11-03 01:49:18 · 36 answers · asked by mistahfantastic 2 in Singles & Dating

she came to me, I returned her affection I need to know is I can be sure. I am not a trusting person,I want to trust but she is older than me ( one year my seinor).I am afradid we could be separated before I know If she cares for sure

2006-11-03 01:47:43 · 3 answers · asked by Euclid 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 01:47:19 · 19 answers · asked by moneybaby_2007 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 01:46:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy two weeks ago. I gave him my number and we've been constantly texting each other. I initiated our first date as he wasn't forthcoming. It went brilliantly. However, although he still texts me numerous times every day, he hasn't mentioned a second date. I suggested it in a flirty way, but he didn't respond to it, although he continues to text me as before. I know I've been too forward so I won't suggest it again!He and his ex split fairly recently, so maybe that has something to do with it? We haven't slept together. I really like him but don't know where I stand.

2006-11-03 01:45:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering how many you slept with and your age and if you ever had an STD..lets hear some real answers cuz im promiscuious but if ive been with more than most than im gonna settle down. BOYS...u can answer too if you like

2006-11-03 01:45:29 · 26 answers · asked by *Hot.s.lut. 4 U to POUND ON 2 in Singles & Dating

i was seeing him for 2 years and his snoring is really bad, as u no from my previous question he moved in with his mam. i cant sleep on a night do u think its because i cant hear his snoring?? i was thinking its like a lulaby 2 a baby???? what do u think?

2006-11-03 01:44:27 · 17 answers · asked by pippy_pipison 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 01:43:56 · 7 answers · asked by kgasogokb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night, I was talking to a woman who is friends with the guy I have an interest in (but I am still friends with) we were discussing men, in general, and how much they suck. When she asks me if me & the guy mentioned above have been seeing each other.

I said "No, he doesn't like me. I have been upfront that I am interested but he says he feels nothing. So, ya know, can't change that. Why? Does he talk about me or something?"

She said "He has said that you guys hang out and ya'll are friends, but he isn't ready for anything serious right now (which I don't blame him) he just has a lot on his mind..."

I was surprised that he even mentioned me to her. Do you think that he could possible consider me as a future option? That he likes me and is just scared?

2006-11-03 01:41:01 · 5 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14, I look really good, I'm 5" 4, I have short black hair "I'm trying to grow it into a afro. I would like to go out with a girl that's my height.

2006-11-03 01:40:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anthony W 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a Tiffany's solitare engagement ring, with the appraisal form from the store. It is in its box and in mint condition. Do you know where I can sell it besides eBay or a pawn shop??

2006-11-03 01:40:15 · 10 answers · asked by ELL 2 in Weddings

People are never happy with anything. It's to cold' It's to Hot. bla bla bla bla.

2006-11-03 01:40:09 · 10 answers · asked by ekke e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was at a bar and we were playing a game and this guy was guessing women's ages within 1-2 years. It was incredible. Later when he was a little lubed up, he told me he looks at a woman's neck and hands as a true tell to how old she is.

2006-11-03 01:37:29 · 19 answers · asked by shawn1980 3 in Singles & Dating

The last time we made love he "asked" if I wanted to use a condon instead of just putting it on...he knows I'm not on any birthcontrol,and he does want a baby(he told me that).Does this mean he may want to get me pregnant? Honest answers please.

2006-11-03 01:36:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Calling all men. Do you find women who arent 'skinny' attractive, a size 16 or an 18?
would you approach someone this size on a night out? and do you find all the skinny black girls that dress the same (ie. just walked out of top shops window) attractive?Truthfully please
i mean i'am a black female and i went from a size 13/14 to a size 16....truthfully i have a lot of confidents and love for myself even if a guy dont find me attractive because of my size

2006-11-03 01:36:44 · 8 answers · asked by brownskndiva87 1 in Singles & Dating

I have thought about this and the way things are going in the world. Women for some unknown reason want to be out of the house and working. Well I am more than happy to wake up, make her lunch. Drop the kids at school take the dogs for a walk, do the washing, have a spot of lunch with friends, take the horse out for an afternoon ride, pick up the kids, do a bit of shopping, look through jamie olivers cook book and chose something nice for dinner and get that ready for when she comes home.

How many women actually want this ? Or do you still believe in sexism if it suits you ?

2006-11-03 01:35:50 · 17 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 20, my bf is 25... we have been together for a year now.
When we first got together, we had sex a week and a half after we started the relationship... and for the past year we make love like 3-4 times a day in the space of 1-2 hours.
We dont live together, and he goes to work and im at university, so we only see each other in the evenings for a short while.
I know he loves me and i love him but im starting to think that all he wants from me lately is sex, i mean if i say no he gets kinda frustrated, and he claims that im the one who always wants it and he can live without it but i cant.
What can i do to make him slow down??? i mean hes addicted, i think i have spoilt him too much.

2006-11-03 01:35:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you have any experiences of letting go of your past...? pls. share them to me...

i'd love to read

2006-11-03 01:35:19 · 14 answers · asked by sweetgal 3 in Friends

Why? Did your feelings change once you got to know them? Did you become more attracted to them because of the person they were?

2006-11-03 01:33:58 · 19 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a dancer and my boyfriend came to see me the other night and some of my fellow dancers were checking out my boyfriend and I already didn't like them from the begining . Should I fight?

2006-11-03 01:33:35 · 8 answers · asked by Da #1 Chick 3 in Singles & Dating

They don't want to do this, that is why there are so many miserable old maid spinsters out there who can't get laid.

There would probably be less divorces too. When will these dumb broads learn? The oriental girls got it right. They are quiet and suck cork.

2006-11-03 01:32:42 · 24 answers · asked by bigfatfrank1 1 in Singles & Dating