Last night, I was talking to a woman who is friends with the guy I have an interest in (but I am still friends with) we were discussing men, in general, and how much they suck. When she asks me if me & the guy mentioned above have been seeing each other.
I said "No, he doesn't like me. I have been upfront that I am interested but he says he feels nothing. So, ya know, can't change that. Why? Does he talk about me or something?"
She said "He has said that you guys hang out and ya'll are friends, but he isn't ready for anything serious right now (which I don't blame him) he just has a lot on his mind..."
I was surprised that he even mentioned me to her. Do you think that he could possible consider me as a future option? That he likes me and is just scared?
2006-11-03 01:41:01 · 5 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely sounds like there could be something down the line.
2006-11-03 01:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this... are you willing to wait around for this guy to figure it out? When is he not going to have "a lot on his mind?"
If a delightful young lady who I am friends with tells me she wants something more serious, I'd be thrilled... if I wanted her. If not, maybe I'd tell her or my friends that I'm "not ready" or have "a lot on my mind right now" or anything else that will soften the blow.
If he made it clear to you that "he feels nothing" then perhaps you are grasping at hope and not much else.
2006-11-03 13:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Prince of Pomp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, it sounds like he just plain isn't interested and is just beating around the bush. Don't want to be harsh, but I don't want you to get your hopes up either. Move on to someone that won't BS you!
2006-11-03 09:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it you need, permission??? Jesus, just go talk to him and be upfront about what it is you want from the relationship...if he's not ready, he can tell YOU, don't dream this chit up!!!
2006-11-03 09:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he be scared to tell a hot little honey like you that he likes you and wants to date you?
Good luck
2006-11-03 09:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Highbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋