do you have any experiences of letting go of your past...? pls. share them to me...
i'd love to read
2006-11-03 01:35:19 · 14 answers · asked by sweetgal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes!My parents got divorced and I had to move with my mum and my sister with my dad.When my father married again,my step mother wouldn't let me talk to my sister or see her and my dad knew all this but he didn't move a finger.I cried a lot,I was crying home at school,everywhere.After a while my father got divorced again and I could see my sister.I've learned that everybody makes mistakes and I learned to forgive him even if that was very hard for me.Now,I decided to forget that and I'm happy cause I've let go of my past.
2006-11-03 04:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by black_cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. I don't know if this is what you mean or not but I had a surgery that was botched and I almost died. It was a very long recovery process. No lawyer would take my case for malpractice and I had to have several other surgeries b/c of the accident. Other than the medical expense I had perfect credit. I had to file bankruptcy eventually. It was a really tough time. I had to eventually learn that I could start all over and just accept the fact that I have a huge ugly scar down almost my whole front and was penniless but at least I was still alive, because I only had a 10% chance of survival. I like to think of it as I'm here for a reason. I hope noone has to go through something like that.
2006-11-03 01:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason for this question?? Do you have a story that has caused this question?? When someone has let go of their past it's usually because they don't wish to deal with it anymore and want to move on and just want it to be the PAST.. The past can haunt you and cause you so much grief if you hang on to it..
I had to let go of some stuff and forgive some people for some bad stuff but that is the past and that is where I want it to stay...
2006-11-03 01:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by lisa_sonydadc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually move once a year to let go of my past. At least I used to. I have a hard time letting go of it, and a hard time committing to anything. My boyfriend settled me down and I've now lived in the same place for six years with all my ghosts.
2006-11-03 01:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you never let go of the past and that is ok as long as you are able to move forward and go on with your life.
2006-11-03 01:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've a bad habit of not letting go of the past easily. But I learnt that taking part in more activities to find more company to enjoy myself, or more work to keep my mind busy, certainly helps.
But it took a few months for me though. =]
2006-11-03 01:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Zhanew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard for me to let go of the past, but I do eventually.
2006-11-03 01:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ihave a big problem with letting go my past like my two homeboys died on my 15 birthday last year and i still haven't let it go but the best way is to just kinda quit thinking of it, but never forget bout it. just try to do something fun okay.
2006-11-03 02:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by BRAT09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
letting go of the past is very hard and very painful and take a long time to get over it.
i lost my father in a car accident, and i had to have 2 years of counsoling just to get over it. but some days i think i see him or i see something that reminds me of him
2006-11-03 01:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by zigazagie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what works for you. But think about all the things you had to go through in your life to get to this point. If things didn't happen, then you wouldn't be able to appreciate what you have now.
2006-11-03 02:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋