Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

Okay, so my "best" friend has a boyfriend right, and that kinda made me the third wheel for about 6 months. She started to hang out with him more and I was just kinda by myself, because I didn't want her to get mad at me for trying to ruin her time with her boyfriend. So I let it go. Now I have a boyfriend, but he goes to a different school. And it seems like my best friend is pushing everyone away for her boyfriend, making him her life basically, and is forgetting that he's not the only person that cares about her. I've talked to her about it countless times and I dont know what to do now. I am stubborn, so I'm just not talking to her (of course, she's not talking to me either, for she is too busy being with her boyfriend every 2 minutes) But we were best friends for 5 years, and I really dont want to lose her, but I want her to stop being so caught up in her boyfriend too. Its been like this the past year, and I'm just to the point where I dont care what she does. Any advice?

2006-11-03 03:35:19 · 11 answers · asked by Roo 1 in Friends

I have been in a committed relationship with a man for 3 years now. I live with him and his two children of who I help to raise. My problem is that I want a child of my own and he doesn't. Friends tell me to leave but I love him so much. I just don't know what to do!!! Please help me!

2006-11-03 03:34:51 · 15 answers · asked by Patricia L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i will travel for about 5 monthes ...for my studying and i will leave my husband,,,,i ...feel that he will betray me...i dont trust him...well he didnt actually have sex with another lady...we have been married for only 3 monthes...and we only knew each other for 2 monthes before marrage...what r the possibilty that he cheats ...also how can i get that idea out of my head so i can concentrate on my studies...any suggestions...

2006-11-03 03:34:37 · 29 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 03:34:03 · 6 answers · asked by ajaylondonuk 1 in Singles & Dating

Love makes you do silly things sometimes I am so embarrassed. I felt very strongly that he has been cheating. What would you do or think?

2006-11-03 03:33:58 · 7 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom 50, is divorced and hasn't had a boyfriend in 8 years. She has only been on two dates in the past 6 years and never had a second date.

She is bad at relationships and acts like an immature teen and latches on to men way to quick. She married my father after 8 months of knowing him and that was ugly.

She called me today to tell me she has a "boyfriend" and she has known him for FOUR days. She told me she wanted me and my wife to meet him tomorrow. She also said she is taking him to Thanksgiving to meet the entire family!

She says he is "perfect" for her: never been married, has no children, has his own house and is an accountant.

We were shocked and felt it was so rushed. I am uncomfortable meeting her boyfriend of 4 days. We want her to have a boyfriend so she stops trying to hang out with us all of the time, but this is way fast!

Are we overreacting? What do you think?

2006-11-03 03:32:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The cake I am looking for serves 40 people or less. I posted an earlier question but the bakery suggested in the answers will not deliver to Temecula.

2006-11-03 03:32:56 · 17 answers · asked by sprklbds 1 in Weddings

My husband wants for both os us to get our tongues pierced, I would like to have it pierced with my husband at the same time but is there something about piercing your tongue that I dont know of?

2006-11-03 03:32:50 · 23 answers · asked by mother of four angels 1 in Marriage & Divorce

means is it marriage is essential in a man/woman life for a peace/hormony till death

2006-11-03 03:32:40 · 15 answers · asked by BASKARAN R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

From my experience I find that guys are much more attracted to naughty girls....She mention she got really tight jeans and bought a pack of cigarettes to just light and hold but not really smoke...I see nothing wrong with that...I am a smoker and not encouraging her to smoke, but it she wants to use a lit cigarette to get attention and help her bad girl image...she is not hurting anything..she is not really smoking as she says ...just holding it and taking a puff or two.

2006-11-03 03:31:51 · 4 answers · asked by lindaminato 1 in Singles & Dating

to cheat in hot weather or cold weather?

2006-11-03 03:31:44 · 20 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex boyfriend says he cheated on me then he told my best friend he didn't. Now he says the only reason why he said that was because he hates the way my mom harrasses him. He wants to get back together but i still feel like he cheated. What should I do?

2006-11-03 03:31:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 03:31:25 · 6 answers · asked by kassey k 1 in Friends

i feel i love my husband madly more than he does...he is so romantic ...but he doesnt show me any romance...i feel so weak...what can i do...this hurts a lot...what can i do...any suggestions...very hard to live with a husband whom you feel that you dont mean what he means to you....

2006-11-03 03:31:11 · 5 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I do a paper round and the other day I notiaced this girl from a different school looking at me out of her window. When I looked at her she rushed away. Is this a normal thing that girls do when they fancy someone? Anyway saw her at the bus stop the other day and she was staring at me then again. Do you think she fancies me? and if so what should I do to ask her out? (bearing in mind I don't know her)

2006-11-03 03:30:37 · 18 answers · asked by the man in that van 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 03:30:32 · 28 answers · asked by Lisa M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so my ex boyfriend isa moving to my school and i still like him but i just dont want my heart to be broken again

2006-11-03 03:30:23 · 16 answers · asked by chschick987876 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a step parent and my husbands son lost his mother and he is a total brat toards me what should i do?

2006-11-03 03:30:03 · 11 answers · asked by nicole k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Over dinner, I suggested to my unemployed son that he may want to go work at the graveyard with his cousin. His response was. "Work there?, Heck, I want to LIVE there". He's been a bit depressed lately, and did not seem to be joking, should I be concerned? Is this suicidal ideation?

2006-11-03 03:29:59 · 18 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Family

I asked a question about thirty minutes ago about how i should feel about my bf and he was talking to a couple of woman well it was more then that but he wanted me to put one in from his point of view so this is his and he wants to know if i have a reason to be upset
Me and my gf got together in jan i was talking to women before her yes 1 i flirted with a cple times and 1 that i did have sex with but even before i met my gf friend i talked with them like friends talk after i met my gf i talked to those women a cple more times and
They were told about my gf and my gf was told about the conversations with them when my girlfriend told me she didnt like it i stopped talking to all women Yes we had a fight about it, but it was stopped

2006-11-03 03:29:21 · 3 answers · asked by anon a 2 in Singles & Dating

why do men tell a woman one thing and turn around and do just the opposite of what they said?

2006-11-03 03:29:00 · 9 answers · asked by Patricia S 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 03:28:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I should mention that we dated briefly and broke up 10 months ago, and we never had the chance to go. Am I wrong for wanting to take a girl that i could be falling in love with?

2006-11-03 03:28:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i'm virgin and i might do it with my boyfriend, but i need to know if it hurts when a guy is penetrating a girl, do u guys have any pain when penetrating a girl??? please be honest, i need to know more info, some people say it does hurt a lot, please help me.

2006-11-03 03:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by stargirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it always a bad idea to call your boyfriend before he calls me? I'm trying to lessen the amount of times I call him. But everyone says I should let him call me. Is that always right?

2006-11-03 03:26:12 · 4 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Singles & Dating

Yeah I'm just 18, but from what I see, from what I've experienced, from what OLDER WOMEN have told me...

most guys, not all, but a big percentage don't look for anything serious...

???

2006-11-03 02:49:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a man that I had a magic moment with. I mean, it happened on more than one occassion that we had the opportunity to be in each other's presence. We just froze and stared at each other, just like in the movies. I have never felt such strong chemistry with another man. We spoke, and he told me to contact him. I did. But then I found out he was married. He never even responded to my e-mails or telephone calls. A friend told me that perhaps he thought it over, and did not want to trust himself to even be in my presence. Could this be a simple reason? I assumed that if he was interested that something must be wrong with his marriage. He can't be happily married, do you think?

I am not going bother this man again. I don't like being rejected. But I just have never had a man literally run to me, freeze in his steps, etc., etc., and just never respond.

I just want to know what on earth makes a man behave like this in the first place? What should I do if I ever see him again?

2006-11-03 02:47:55 · 25 answers · asked by Emitrav 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a guy friend call my ex and tell him its best he dont call me anymore. i had been telling my ex to leave me alone for a while. everytime i start to move on with my life here comes my ex. manipulating me and lieing to me. its ben hard enough trying to leave the bastard. but everytime im doing good he calls and stirs me up. so i had another guy call him and say it. i had dated my ex for 2 1/2 yrs. so do you think he will stop after what i did last night.

2006-11-03 02:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I both work fulltime. We have 2 schoolages children 5, and a 2 year old. I want a housekeeper 3 days a week and she would also cook and do the laundry those days. He says he is worried that they may steal something! Any ideas. I am exausted and this would take a load off of me and a lot of stress and help my family stay happy. I sometimes work and 7 days a week and still have to go home and clean my husban would help but he works to.. I say if we can afford it why not please help with this.. Thanks

2006-11-03 02:47:50 · 20 answers · asked by Sexy PR Mom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have had enough with this girl. i have almost every class with her and all she talks about is this one teacher who shes crushing on. i somehow feel like im being used by her because she asks me if i can pick her up in the mornings and drive her to school and she lives 2 blocks away from the school. and everytime i talk to her she either ignores me or inturpts me and starts talking, the only time she'll acctually listen to me is when i mention that teacher that she likes. the rest of the time i feel like im talking to a wall. i didnt want to have to tell her so ive tried ignoring her, we walk together to class and i started to walk off without her. ive basically tried to get her to realize how annoying she is without having to tell her but she dosent get it. ive practically gotten to the point where i want to strangle her but ya i dont know what to do.

2006-11-03 02:46:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends