well i'm virgin and i might do it with my boyfriend, but i need to know if it hurts when a guy is penetrating a girl, do u guys have any pain when penetrating a girl??? please be honest, i need to know more info, some people say it does hurt a lot, please help me.
2006-11-03 03:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by stargirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!! Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...
2006-11-03 03:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all how old are you?
its a very scary situation if your thinking of having sex for the first time. what I tell my churches youth group is that when you think your ready to have sex wait 5 more years and then your ready. I know it sounds like fun but girls always end up getting hurt emotionally. make sure that your boyfriend is willing to make the same sacrifices you are if you get pregnant, or any STD.
Are you really ready to loose your virginity at this point in time. Do you honestly believe that your boyfriend now will become your husband later on in life. statisicly speaking HS sweethearts never work.
Im talking from experience I was 13 when I lost my virginity to a guy I was w/ since I was 11. He was 2yrs older than I was and I thought I was in love. he was cute and I thought if I hadn't he would have left me. Well about a month after he stopped calling and we stopped dating. I got pregnant and had a mis-carriage. he didnt even call to see if I was ok. do you really want that to happen to you.
2006-11-03 11:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by smbrennan24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will hurt you a lot if you don't wait until you get married! Can you hold out until then? Because once you start you will not stop and you will be sinning be time! Don't ruin one of the best thing in this world that you have to give!
2006-11-03 11:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Child of God 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the person, hun. The guy who took my virginity was blessed and I didn't hurt at all. Keep in mind if you are nervous, you will tense up and it will hurt more. Don't do it if you aren't 100% sure you are ready or it will not be enjoyable. Good luck.
2006-11-03 11:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by deliannathaniel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The amount of pain you will feel depends on how "big" the guy is, but yes your first time will hurt some but after your cherry is popped the pain will ease.
2006-11-03 11:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by RedRose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure that u want it and it's protected. Be careful cauz your BF might break up with you after getting everything you have. About the hurt part, how could i know?
2006-11-03 11:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by AlvaDaGansta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have him put Vaseline on his penis. It will make your first experience a lot more satisfying for you!
2006-11-03 12:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ONLY WHEN SHE DIGS HER FINGERNAILS INTO MY BACK!
2006-11-03 11:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by drakekse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋