i feel i love my husband madly more than he does...he is so romantic ...but he doesnt show me any romance...i feel so weak...what can i do...this hurts a lot...what can i do...any suggestions...very hard to live with a husband whom you feel that you dont mean what he means to you....
2006-11-03 03:31:11 · 5 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you are having a serious case of worries. Usually what you are going through is what many people go through in early stages of relationships. After the meeting and impressing stage of the relationship moves on to deeper and more emotional stuff, men tend not to feel the need to impress or be on their best behavior like when first wooing you. It`s a comfort thing and men show intimacy and romance differently than women, mostly anyway. Trust and communication are the two most important things in a relationship, because if you do not trust him, your thoughts will undermine the relationship, and if you do not communicate, how do yo know what is going on in his head, and how and you trust him. You must communicate with your husband and ask questions, then LISTEN to his answers without jumping to conclusions or being initially defensive. Only he can tell you what he is really feeling and actions do not always speak loader than words.
2006-11-03 03:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by bubbabuddy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In any relationship one person has a stronger personality than the other, so this doesn't make jou a weak person. Also, some men find it very difficult to show their emotions. That does not mean he loves you less. If it's his nature not to be demonstrative, it won't change. Not now, anyway, but in time he'll grow mellow and start showing more love and affection towards you. So, don't let your insecurity keep you from being happy. You can take the lead by demonstrating to him how to show affection, and that it's not something to be ashamed of, and in time he will follow suit. Only if he's unfaithful or rude or abuse, you'll have reason to worry. So, just go on loving him en working on your self-esteem. He's still with you, isn't he? That must mean something, like there's nothing wrong with you. One day he'll show his appreciation!
2006-11-03 20:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by ina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is hard I admit sometimes I feel I love my wife more then she loves me but when I talk to her about it she reasure me that her love is still there and is as strong as ever but somedays she may be tired from work or just stressed out and I understand. My point is do not assume taht he does not talk to him something else could be going on communication is the key
2006-11-03 04:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by C live 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try talking to your hunny and having a romantic dinner and wearing something nice with the kids if there are some and tell him he means everything to you and you miss when ehe would whisper your name in the night or kiss you wehn you least expected it or told you he loved you when yjou were in the shower togetherj see if htat helps good luck
2006-11-03 03:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by vomissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny
2016-03-28 05:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋