Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

My cell phone has been turn off! It's $182 because I didn't pay my phone bill last month and I went over 34 minutes and also including my bill for this month. My Boyfriend makes Tons of money and loves to gamble. He lost $1,200 recently. I currently don't have a job but about to get one. I need my cell phone that my way of communication. Don't you think he should pay it? Not that I am golddigger because I am not. It's just that he spends money on everything else for me like food, alcohol, cigarettes, trips, and etc. Why is he refusing to pay my phone bill? Or maybe he was just joking around with me on the phone and saying he wasn't but he really is... He jokes and messes with me alot alot of the times. Give me your input

2006-11-03 02:31:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont use cridit cards i will spend all that in the house to make me happy but the stuff is never for me.my husband is about to leave meplease help me

2006-11-03 02:31:06 · 12 answers · asked by Jami S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the problem is that everybody used to tease me.When he got to know about this he became aggresive.He even tried to hit my friend with his hockey.Last year also misunderstanding took place and he stopped talking with me.He doesn't taklk to any girl in class unless someone first talks with him.I feel like he ignores me but he sometimes look at me.(chup chup ke) I cant stop liking him.Please help..........?

2006-11-03 02:30:27 · 21 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Friends

2006-11-03 02:29:58 · 31 answers · asked by Twametra R 1 in Singles & Dating

Some of my friends say they are, just because I won't date fat girls. But listen! Before you get all judgemental on me, this is all I'm looking for in a girl physically; 1)she has to have a pretty face 2)she has to be relatively height/weight proportionate--if she's like 10-20 lbs over weight (just a little chubby) that's ok..I don't like the real skinny supermodel-type girls. 3)she has to have a nice butt

That's it! Is that really too much to ask for?

2006-11-03 02:29:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 02:29:26 · 9 answers · asked by hottie4u_35776 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with your boyfriend of 4 years getting a baby on you. Still want to be with your man but can't accept the baby. Is it wrong to bring it up all the time.

2006-11-03 02:29:25 · 10 answers · asked by mocha 3 in Singles & Dating

He sweeps u off your feet, makes u want him, fall in love with him......
Once he gets u, he controls you, ridicules you, verbally and emotionally abuses you, uses you, lies to you and plays mind games with you. Finally, when you had enough, he still wont let go of u, makes things difficult for you.

Why go through all these when all you wanted to do is to love him.

Why does loving a man has to be so tough??

2006-11-03 02:28:27 · 16 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 02:27:02 · 68 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Marriage & Divorce

hello i am currently quite close with a girl. we are about to go in a relationship.but just when everything was going well, my girl's close friend is interested in me as she just confessed to me. but i am not interested in her as i truly love my girl.but i am afraid that my love will be affected as my girl's close friend might share her opinion of my girl. this might create some problem between me and my girl just as we started a relationship. what should i do?

2006-11-03 02:26:37 · 8 answers · asked by sathish g 1 in Singles & Dating

Allright ive asked a question here before and got good answers im going to be more specific this time. I met my bf in the beginning of january and now we are living together. When i met him he stayed in contact with a lot of the woman he used to talk to but there is two in particular that come to my mind. One is a girl that he has slept with twice over three years in between his relationships and another one is one that he told she was beautiful and wanted her under his christmas tree. He continued to talk to the last one and do cam conference with her after we were together. He has stopped now but i had to ask him to stop and i feel that he should have stopped if he was happy with me. How should i feel about this is it really no big deal as he makes it out or is it something that should bother me
Thank you

2006-11-03 02:25:42 · 14 answers · asked by anon a 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 02:24:35 · 26 answers · asked by jay 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 02:23:53 · 13 answers · asked by Sweepy 3 in Singles & Dating

hi to every one. love mainy depends upon the feeling from heart or it depnds upon on smart ness of the person.

2006-11-03 02:23:37 · 9 answers · asked by nivas 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is really jealous. Im honest, and i never cheated on any guy before, because i think its just wrong 2 play with someones feelings like that. He knows I would never cheat, because he knows all my friends since they all were like in kidnegarden including my EXs, so there is no reason for him to be jealous. But his jealousy its just so irritating, because i never lie even if it hurts, and being accused just really puts me down.
what should i do? it comes to a point that i don't even think i love him any more, and i don't want to be with him because he just got issues, but its to hard to let go...

2006-11-03 02:23:25 · 5 answers · asked by BloodyLicious:P 1 in Singles & Dating

How many times have you found yourself saying this about
someone very special in your life??????

2006-11-03 02:23:08 · 24 answers · asked by Immortal lestat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Asked a question and you answered it but she didnt give you the best answer would you cry?? x

Hehe x

2006-11-03 02:23:05 · 35 answers · asked by jo 4 in Friends

2006-11-03 02:22:26 · 8 answers · asked by Greg M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Or should say fall in the trap of not getting insecure? i mean its just so unfair that good looking guys like me have to see this from my very own eyes everyday and then i think.what a wrong couple, a blunder. Girls i think the best way to keep a guy loyal is by keeping a hunter on his bum and then is when your good looking hunk of a guy will give you the best loyalty,,,what do you guys say?and the Girls too..offcourse!

2006-11-03 02:22:09 · 28 answers · asked by Wisdom Of The God 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to know so i can get over and past this

2006-11-03 02:21:52 · 21 answers · asked by nicole h 1 in Singles & Dating

We been together for 4 years and for the most part he is a good guy. Latley though his mood swings are unbearable. Last night he got into a verbal dispute with his ex wife and her fiance over the kids he has with the ex. Anyways to make a long story short he comes home as Im cooking dinner and starts screaming and yelling and belittling me as if he was taking his argument out on me and he was doing this infront of my kids and his kids(his kids come over once a week and on the weekends great kids) Then he starts screaming at his 11 year old daughter and 7 year old son as if they were animals and of course made them cry.Everytime he has an issue with the ex and her fiance he treats everyone around him like crapp and I dont know how much more I can take. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do? Thank you

2006-11-03 02:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by onehotmama 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really have the feeling that the mother of one of my son’s (he’s 10) best friends misunderstood me. I know it sounds very silly but I truly believe she thought I was bitching about a good friend of her but I was not.
I don’t know my son’s friend’s mother well enough to ring her and justify myself to her. The thing is that she had insisted to have my son spend last night at their house which I had agreed. She was to phone to confirm the time, etc. but never did.
My son is very sad and upset and so am I about this whole thing.

Any good advice of what I should do would be very helpful and appreciated.

2006-11-03 02:21:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife has a child from a previous relationship and we have one together and I feel she puts them before me. I understand that they are her world and she loves them to death but sometimes I feel what the heck am I here for, and I am not selfish or any thing like that but I don't believe kids should come before any spouse I don't even put my kids from another relationship before her am I wrong for feeling like this?

2006-11-03 02:21:07 · 31 answers · asked by C live 5 in Marriage & Divorce

People keep telling me to get away from them and stop blaming the men. I understand that I should leave if I don't like how I'm being treated. But doesn't the person who knowingly hurts me have to answer for anything? What kind of sick person plays around with somebody's mind and heart?

2006-11-03 02:21:04 · 9 answers · asked by charleston chew 2 in Singles & Dating

I have to resent a package out because I got it back and it was refused. Well I found another address for it that finally works. Its birthday stuff because this persons birthday was in August. I am having issues thaat dela with the person I am sending the packge to. I want to hold off because I ma sending an xmas present to this person in December. I dont know if I should combing the both so I dont have to make two trips. But what do you think I shoud do? Should I hold off on the birthday thing til I sent out the xmas present or should I just send out the b-day thing right a3way to get it out of the way? Thanks. I just dont know what to do.

2006-11-03 02:20:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mother-in-law insists that the time we spend with my parents has to equal (or be less than) the time we spend with her.

If she finds out that we visited my parents three times a month but only twice with her and her husband, she spends ages guilting us about "choosing them over us". My father in law is rather indifferent.

Because my parents live within 10 minutes of us and the in-laws are an hour away, this seems a bit excessive.

I just know that this is only going to get worse when we have children. How can I put a stop to this now, but still be nice? All this aside, my mother in a law is a great woman and I like her very much.

2006-11-03 02:20:04 · 5 answers · asked by Pink Denial 6 in Family

2006-11-03 02:19:27 · 32 answers · asked by Allan J 1 in Singles & Dating

do guys onli go for the bad girls, cuz i am not bad but no tgoody goody cuz i mean i have better things to do with my lunchtimes then sit in a classroom doing a detention, so why do guys onli go for that type. I mean i am told to be pretty and hot, and i am sort of confident-not overly tho, and i make people laugh, yet i still dont get guys, what is it do u know?

2006-11-03 02:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by Mintiez 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that in Italy women don't change their family names to their husband's?????

2006-11-03 02:18:02 · 4 answers · asked by Dusik 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'v known her for yrs and was fully aware of her condition,we are just friends and never had any relationship(intimacy)just true friends.People say stay away from that desiesed aids victom.I don't have HIV and i can't just watch her die.She's one of the prettiest smartest and sweetest people i'v ever met.I'v known and hung around her for over 7 yrs.

2006-11-03 02:17:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating