the problem is that everybody used to tease me.When he got to know about this he became aggresive.He even tried to hit my friend with his hockey.Last year also misunderstanding took place and he stopped talking with me.He doesn't taklk to any girl in class unless someone first talks with him.I feel like he ignores me but he sometimes look at me.(chup chup ke) I cant stop liking him.Please help..........?
2006-11-03 02:30:27 · 21 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The fact that he was agressive and tried to hit your friend with a hockey stick, stopped talking to you due to a misunderstanding, and he doesn't speak if someone else says something to him shows that this guy is NOT good for you!! These particular situations should've sent red flags above your head a long time ago. There are plenty of fish in the sea so continue to go out there and meet new people. He's not the only guy on the planet. This dude is bad news and you need to leave him alone. It will be hard to get over this crush you've had on him, but once you meet new people and focusing on the most important things in life, he'll never exist. I hope this helps. Best of luck.
2006-11-03 06:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay here's what you ought to do. At first, ask him why he's been ignoring you. If he's still angry about last year's incident, tell him to forget it, and ask him if you could bury the hatchet and be friends again.
As your friendship progresses, slowly try to find out his feelings for you. If you think he looks at you chup chup ke, he must have some feelings for you. Don't ask him directly, but very carefully, between the lines.
And then, if you think he doesn't like you, try to leave him, yaar. He isn't the only guy out there! Chhod do usey, and get someone new. It's easier said than done, but I've done it, so can you!
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-04 07:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry U Continue U R friendship even I face the same problem when I was in my College from 2002-2005 as I has the friends who has the GOOD character for a homely girl Even Some of MY Professor Start telling that we people are in love with each Other IT is that world of the same professor and students who apreciate Us and ask us to Continue our friendship even after the college days they also praised Us to Continue our friendship.
2006-11-04 09:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said tat he looks at you chup chup ke. so do the same first. ten try to settle this misunderstanding tat you have. make him talk with you and become friends again. if you are a teen then tell him tat u like him after you have become real close friends. but this only after u have become friends ok....shanti se kam lena sab theek ho jayega
from one teen to another ok
hope all goes well. tell me if it does
2006-11-03 13:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by theallknowingguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you said, i assume you are still "young". Why don't you not socialise and meet more boys of your age and stop focusing on him. This is not the right time to get serious in any romantic relationship. Enjoy and savour your youth. Work for your dreams for a better future because this moment will never come back again.
2006-11-03 13:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well......i guess first u shud do frndshp with him so that u get a chance 2 get close 2 him Then show him how much u care 4 him....n when u see d right time, just go n tell him at once d truth.
All d best!!!
2006-11-05 06:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by Rocking Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!talk 2 him,dont b late or may b u may lose him ,im saying this bcoz i too experienced it but now hes gone forever i miss him a lot,dont b late plzzzzzzzzzz atleast 4 my sake ill be happy that u havent lost him
all the best
goodluck sweetie
the boy i liked too used to look at me chup chup ke neither i rected nor did he but now atleast u react
2006-11-05 06:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by skool_kool_gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just can't get used to the way people are teasing him. there might be a chance that he likes but was shy to tell because of all the teasing around the two of you. just like you said he doesn't talk to any girl in class unless someone first talks with him. maybe he just not used to talking with girls and that includes you.
2006-11-03 10:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by twenty_four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having myself gone through such a situation, i suggest u forget him..i know its tough..but c..sometimes we imagine things that are not there..its hard to digest..but maybe he doesnt stare at you..you feel it because you like him..we see the things the way we want to see..the more you will think about him..the more you like him..the more difficult it will be for you to move on in life..think practically..accept the facts and you will be happy..i might sound harsh and you might think wat i m telling is crap..but i also used to think like you..n now i have realised how much of importance i gave to a guy who doesnt even care if i exist or not..think and act wise..all the best..
2006-11-03 13:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by pari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you should ignore this boy for present. Get busy with other friends and studies. you will find that this boy gets interested in you and would start talking t yourfriends to know more about you, then get friendly to him
2006-11-03 10:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by s a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋