How do you deal with your boyfriend of 4 years getting a baby on you. Still want to be with your man but can't accept the baby. Is it wrong to bring it up all the time.
2006-11-03 02:29:25 · 10 answers · asked by mocha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He cheated on me and got the girl pregnant. He finally told me the truth a couple of days ago. The baby is 3 weeks old.
2006-11-03 02:42:48 · update #1
What ?
2006-11-03 02:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by prettygirl5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on you & the BABY is the part you can't accept? wow. I don't know what you expect from this relationship, but I would say not much. how do you know the baby mama is the only woman he's cheated on you with thus far? she might just be the only one who got caught. I think you need to leave the guy & start over - with someone who isnt' going to cheat on you. you won't ever be able to trust him again - & I firmly believe once a cheater, always a cheater. Good luck -
2006-11-03 04:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, this is not wrong. it seems that you are not ready to become mum as yet. consider things fully before you decide on anything right now. your mind might be confused. seek counselling.
but first and foremost you should have been using contraceptives if you are not ready to take care of a baby. If you play near the fire you can easily burn yourself!!! And that is a very irresponsible thing that you've been doing. Before having sex you should have considered the possibility of getting pregnant and if you were not ready then you should have used contraceptives. Be responsible about your actions!!
2006-11-03 02:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please move on.
I have been single for approx 10 years.
If I don't think I can love the child, which is part of the package, do not do it.
Your life will be strained with the father and the child forever.
Move forward. There are a lot of good looking, decent guys out there that have no children and just wants to make some beautiful woman the queen of his life.
2006-11-03 02:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it comes down to can you really trust him after this and do you just feel as though you cant live without him? i think i would leave him, there are too many other guys out there that are more respectable and honest. Good luck
2006-11-03 03:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trust issue is gone, he cheated. He has to earn the trust back. It's not the baby's fault that it is here...
2006-11-03 02:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't want to have a baby ,let him know how you feel about that ...if he doesn't agree you might have to let him go cuz you cant stop some one from wanting a family ....just like some one cant stop you from not wanting a child ............
2006-11-03 02:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't understand your question. Be more specific. Getting a baby on you??????????
2006-11-03 02:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya me to i can;t get your question
2006-11-03 02:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
2006-11-03 02:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋