Am I wrong if I say that in the end, most guys just want sex??

Question

Yeah I'm just 18, but from what I see, from what I've experienced, from what OLDER WOMEN have told me...

most guys, not all, but a big percentage don't look for anything serious...

???

Answer 1

So now you are 18 we can tell you the truth. YES you are 100% correct!!!! That was easy but did you ever wonder why?

Altho mankind produces man, it did not create man. If you think we came from apes, God, whatever is really irrelevent. Just as some animals eats plants & then some animals eat the animals that eat the plants there is a balance to all nature. Say what you will but man is an animal, top of the food chain now, but an animal none the less.

Man was born with certain chemicals and drives. It was these things (that now are knocked) that made us such a successful species. Now millions of years later, man (and man made church rules) have said to go against those urges/drive & fight those chemicals. Be with one & only one woman, dont have sex until you are married. This all sounds/looks good on paper but there is no magic pill to take to stop man from acting out how he was created to be,

There are chemicals that create anger, you are told not to act out on it but do you always listen? Women have a cycle every month. They have chemicals & hormones racing through their bodies that change their behavior. People can say just cuz you are going through this does not mean you have a god given right to treat other people like dirt, but like everything else it is easier said then done.

I am not saying that man has a god given right to cheat & have sex with other women either but he is no different then all humans & must learn to fight it (tho it is never easy). The only real difference is our sin seems to be unforgivable. You can get mad & hurt somebody with words or force, forgiven. You can treat people bad on a monthly basis, forgiven. Let man slip one time & BAM, men are dogs. LOL Well yes we are cuz it is how we were created & what put you at the top of the food chain. You may say that not ALL men, but you are wrong. ALL men are that way, just some of us are better at controlling it then others.

Answer 2

Do all guys want sex? Yes. Is that all guys want? No. Sure there are plenty of players out there that are interested in just having sex and not getting involved, but there are also an equal number of guys that are really looking to fall in love and have a relationship. The problem is that the players are the loudest and get all the attention which makes it look like they are a majority.

Answer 3

Yes you are wrong. FROM THE BEGINNING, men are looking for sex. You see, men & women are different in how they look at life. Men are driven by the masculine urge to procreate, and this is enforced by our constant ability to achieve erection. So deep inside our phsyche is the urge to plant our seed into any available attractive fertile mate.

Second, we are influcenced by visual sights, such as a great figure, cleavage, round supple bottoms, etc. And women always seem to provide this visual stimulation everywhere I go. Shorts, tanks, bare mids, unrestrained breasts, and on and on.

Luckily, many of these visual stimultors are usually agreeable mates in the bedroom, or park, or back seat. So even though we men primarily look for a fertile female to plant our seeds, there are many females who are quite willing to accomodate our desires.

Only in older men will you find someone looking for serious and long term. We have sown our seeds and now realize that the way to happiness is a steady monogamous mate.

Answer 4

I think most guys want something serious where sex is included. Otherwise you might as well be just friends. It is the same with most girls. Like if my gf wants to have sex and I'm not in the mood(yeah it happens, like when we just had sex and I need time to recover), she will be like "Well I guess it's good that we are just friends, eh chum?" and she will punch me on the shoulder, to which I will reply, "friends don't f*ck eachothers brains out" and then I give her what she wants.

Yeah thats a double standard.

Answer 5

There is a difference in looking for sex and looking for a relationship. Unfortunately your experiences seem to have been only negative so far. Some of us guys are looking for loving relationships of which sex can and normally is a part. Hopefully your next relationship will be much more satisfying for you and you will not fall into the trap of seeing all of us guys as sex hungry animals

Answer 6

Your not wrong at all i would say 99% of men only care about sex. It is all about getting laid and another notch under the belt for most. I my self could care less can't base my marriage on sex yes it helps us bond though but it is not why i married her. I think woman like my wife should test a man before they get married and make them wait i had to wait for a year with no sex after having it but in that year i learnt more then i ever would about her. Men are pigs you just have to find the right pig. gl

Answer 7

It is unfair to say guys are the only ones like that. I have come across many women, while searching for my soul mate, who said all they needed or wanted from men was sex. Women are like that also.

Let's face it, we live in a sex crazed and driven world. Our music prominently talks about it, TV and news paper ads are filled with it, movies and TV programs don't last unless they have at least one couple embroiled in a hot love affair where their bedroom exploits are also covered. Pornography is a multi-billion dollar industry. Pornography, by the way, is filled with both men and WOMEN, who are willing participants.

Answer 8

It is an inner trait of being born as a male. That's the way we were pre-programmed before delivery. These default settings cannot be changed, however many would like to have sex in a relationship. It is not just bed-hopping.

Answer 9

yeah i agree with you 100%. most guys are looking for only one thing. but there are still some really true, honest, guys out there who want more than sex. you just have to take the time to look.

Answer 10

That is becoming to be totally true. I have learned that most men are just looking for sex for one night, and don't want a relationship!