My girlfriend accuses me all the time for being unfaithfull to her but i am not. I love her so much but she gets angry whenever she sees me talkin to any girl even if the person in question is my sister. what the hell do i do about this?
2006-11-03 02:34:45 · 16 answers · asked by Charles T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex-wife (notice the ex) was the same way. If anyone passed by the table at the restaurant I would look to see who it was, man or woman, just a reflex. but, every time it was a woman she would get furious. ugh!
Some women are just crazy. You either have to put up with it or leave them. Unfortunately I got divorced for seperate reason. She married me for green card. :(:(
Good luck.
2006-11-03 02:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by The Ultimate Nerd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your g/f sounds very insecure and it probably stem from her childhood. She needs time to heal and someone who's patient and loving to help her.( you sound like that person) Next time when you talk to any girl, try holding her hand while you are talking or if you happen to be across the room when you are talkin to some girl, try to give her little signals to show her that you are thinking of her even tho you are across the room.. like give her a little wink, give her the love sign with your hand...etc and communicate with her often. good luck!
2006-11-03 10:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you may tell her often, she's probably unsure of your feelings for her. She might even feel neglected when you pay attention to others. Belive it or not, this has to do with her insecurities and low self-esteem as opposed to her not trusting you. But it's only worth it if the love is mutual and she's not trying to control you.
2006-11-03 10:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by enGAGEd!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sick, you can't even talk to your sister!
Man try to explain that you are not unfaithful, if she does not understand ask why she stays with you allthough she thinks you are cheeting on her and make her reason. If all this fails dump her, she's a lost cause.
2006-11-03 10:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by ale_limp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your gal is trying to be very controlling. You need to put down your foot and inform her that you will speak with other females and if she doesn't like it then it's time to end the relationship and move on.
2006-11-03 10:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her either you stop not trusting me or our relationship is over. She will stop after hearing this and hopefully have belief in you and trust. Don't be agressive about it but more understanding, like agreeing with her if that makes sense.
2006-11-03 10:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Brevin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too insecure, invite her into conversations maybe...jealousy does not generally improve, just have to accept it, or change to girlfriend who isn't bothered by other people contacts....
2006-11-03 10:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You either wise up now before she screws up your life,,,, or wait til later after she screws up your life....
YOU ARE PUTTING UP WITH THE DRAMA.
2006-11-03 10:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol shes alittle too obsessed wit whoevr ur talking with..ell her its nothing..i wish my gf was alittle "obsessed" wit me like that too..haha but tell her to loosen up
2006-11-03 10:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her that relationships without trust dont work, and see if she is willing to try and change
2006-11-03 10:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋