Okay my b/f cheeted on me b4. but he told me bout it. this time i moved away and he did it again. should i bump him or let it go again?? i need u guyzes help
2006-11-03 03:51:20 · 49 answers · asked by Alisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him. Once a cheat always a cheat. I once dated a guy who was addicted to crack. I didn't really know the extent to it when we started dating. I felt that because I loved him sooo much that he would change and see the love that I had for him. Boy was I wrong! He's now in prison on drug related charges.
I know that it's not really the samething. But you have to ask yourself why do you keep going back to him? You are allowing him to cheat on you. Plus you two aren't married so it's best to get out now. Didn't mean to gripe at you. I just hate to hear of people that keep dating someone who doesn't treat them right. You can do so much better!
2006-11-03 03:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kellybug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alisa, a man can only do what you allow him to do and you allowed him to cheat on you once so he did it again and he is gonna do it again and again and again until you stand up for yourself and let this guy go. Most men think like this, she didn't mind the 1st time so why should she mind this time. A man will treat you like a dog if you allow him too do it. You are better than that and you deserve better than that. Don't let no man make a fool of you. God wants you with the best not just any old junk and this guy seems like junk to me. I hope it works out for you but in your heart you know that he is wrong and that you deserve better than to be cheated on by someone who says they love you.
2006-11-03 03:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a serial cheater. Unless you want to stick in a relationship without any trust, and not knowing that everytime you leave the house he might cheat on you, then you gotta make a big decision. You gotta stand up for yourself because his actions are disrespecting you. By cheaing on you he his doing far more than that. He is telling you that the relationship doesn`t matter to him, that he doesn`t respect you etc. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-11-03 03:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by bubbabuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to definetely get rid of him. No doubt about it. You don't deserve this. He obviously did not learn the first time and if he did it again now, he IS going to do it again especially if you have moved. Don't let him get away with this. Find somebody that will be happy to be with you and won't cheat on you because you don't deserve that.
2006-11-03 04:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, you certainly deserve someone better who will respect you and appreciate you more. He seems to not be worth it, if has cheated on you not once, but twice, then what makes you think he won't do it again. No matter of what we tell you, you are the one that decides, so be smart and try not to get hurt. Good luck!
2006-11-03 03:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... from my own experiences you may need to let him go. If you're really attached to his heart then it'll hurt you both because you'll be a part of him too. If he ever grows up and sees that he's hurting you, then he'll try to make things right and you'll see that you can trust him. Maybe he'll change for you soon, I hope he does if you love him.
2006-11-03 04:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by amelia j dawkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
History always repeats itself so I would suggest that if it's happened twice now that you can bet your bottom dollar that it will happen a third time. And after each time he will be remorseful and swear that it won't happen again. Best to say bye to this guy and try and find another who will be more faithful.
2006-11-03 05:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Also, by ignoring it or allowing it, you are letting him know that it is OK with you. You can find another boyfriend. Why do you need someone that you cannot trust?
Move on. Go find someone who is honest.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-03 05:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel but u cant let it get u down take a break from him for a while then when u think he is ready go back to him or just move on.in the end u might be the only one getting hurt he has to see how it feels to be the one getting hurt not just you.
2006-11-03 04:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by ~ ★ ~Soulja Girl~ ★ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if he really liked you he would have never cheated in the first place and sure as hell not twice when you were away. Get an upgrade in your new area!!
2006-11-03 03:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by kat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋