Take this VERY slow this new one is so nice because it is NEW... 12 yrs is a long time you don't want to bring any baggage with this new guy... Make the new one wait he will want it that much more :)
2006-11-03 04:29:32
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answered by karebear0603 2
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I can relate. I was dating two guys at the same time Cuz I couldn't decide which one to be with indefinitely. One guy was the type of guy parents love, you know, the perfect gentleman if you will. He'd walk me to the door after a date to make sure I got there all right, & pulled out the chair for me to sit, ect.
The other guy didnt do these little things as much, but I still liked him for other reasons. Anyway, I chose the other guy. One day it just hit me, I liked the him for more reasons than I did the "gentleman" guy. So basically just give it some time, but not too much that both guys will make you choose one or the other... You have to follow your heart on this.
2006-11-03 12:47:22
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answered by malu622 2
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You just got out of a 12 year relationship...don't rush right back into another long term relationship. Date for a while. If you tell your new boyfriend that you need to date rather then get so serious that can open the door for you to see what it is like with this other guy. Your current guy should understand that you are not ready...because obviously you're not.
2006-11-03 13:14:07
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answered by TJ 4
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It sounds like you need to get away...by yourself. It will give you a good chance to evaluate your feelings for the men in your life. I know it is difficult to be alone especially when you are confused, but you NEED to do it. Go to one of your favorite places and just think. For me, I like to walk along the beach and listen to the waves, it is calming and helps me clear my head, then, I can really evaluate the problem and come to a conclusion. Life doesn't have to be so complicated, if you like them both, then date them both, but above all, be honest with them and don't sleep around. The right one will win your heart in the end. Good Luck.
2006-11-03 12:52:34
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answered by Carrie H 3
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You are dating, that's what you do. Just keep tallking to them both until you can really decide who you want to be with. You're not having sex with the other guy so it's cool! And the new guy knows about the other one.
2006-11-03 12:50:03
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answered by Pinky Dinky Doo 2
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I think it's alright to date them both if your not having sex with them. Save the sexual stuff for an exclusive relationship. You still have to choose eventually.
2006-11-03 14:03:04
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answered by love2utam 2
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You need no one's answers. You need to take responsibility for your own choices. Shut out the noise and listen to your own gut instincts. You are not stupid but that doesn't mean you cannot be stupid. Stop being stupid. Get real and get honest to yourself.
2006-11-03 13:29:18
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, you need to learn sentence structure as everything here is so run together, it's difficult to ascertain what your question is. Try again.
2006-11-03 13:09:49
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answered by Anonymous
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only twice has it happened that when I like someone
that
someone else didn't show up that I liked too.
hmmll
1st I could not be with her then
2nd she could not be with me..
hmmm
so
I guess I wait for some that I like who likes me and we can be together!
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2006-11-03 12:58:01
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answered by DM 4
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that's why they call it dating you are aloud to see more the one person at a time.. but eventually you are going to have to pick just one or learn how to be a playa...
2006-11-03 12:39:17
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answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3
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