I have 4 children from a previous relationship. We both currently reside in the same state , he gets the children every other weekend as of now. I will be getting re-married and he resideds out of state due to med school. My question is, after filing a notice of relocation with the courts ( have to due to the divorce.child support), will i have much trouble getting the kids out of the state after we are married?
2006-11-03 03:45:50 · 27 answers · asked by svnyrbtch26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You might have difficulties. If your ex has a good relationship with his children, and is diligent with his visitation and child support, he may fight you on it. It would be his right to do so.
How far away are you moving? How difficult would it be for your children to continue seeing their father? Is your ex aware of your plans?
2006-11-03 03:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
R U moving away from the father because of the new husband only?? Is this the best for the kids?? Is this alot for them to give up for you and a new relationship!! Perhaps you are in a long distance relationship until he is done with school why up and make the kids give up school, friends, dad ect? Unless this is something they want, do they not like where they live (the kids?), do they want to see less of dad?? You will have some explaining to do in court, cause they dont care what is best for you only what is best for the kids
2006-11-03 04:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by liyah's mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can face problems. My children were older and I worked hard with their father to keep their relationship good. By the time I remarried they had themselves already established in school, good friends etc. They did not want to leave and even though it was extreemly hard for me.....I let them stay with their father. It's not without problems but I have to say it's more as a result of them growing up and away as children do, than anything to do with the ex. He's more lienient than I would have been but they have both grown into very well balanced beautiful women. Selfishly I would have prefered to keep them all to myself......but "in their best interest" was drilled into my head and painful as it is at times....sometimes their father is "in their best interest". I know I'm not the norm and I would have felt different if they were babies......but in my case it worked out well for all concerned.
2006-11-03 04:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have three children and moved to another State when I got remarried. Besides petitioning with the court (which in most cases is all you need to do) I also typed something up for him to sign, giving him notice and stating that he was ok with me taking them out of State. He did and I then gave a copy to my lawyer, etc. just in case in the future he tried to pull anything.
2006-11-03 05:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be ok with your ex getting remarried and moving with the kids out of state? If not, maybe you should reconsider taking your kids away from their dad.
Legally, I don't know how difficult it would be for you to do so, but I hope the father has a say in the matter and is able to stop it.
2006-11-03 06:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by thersa33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to your ex. If he is willing to let you do this than get it in writing in the form a parenting plan and file it with the court asap. If he is not willing than you need to talk to a lawyer ASAP. I have heard of cases where a judge will give custody to the non custodial parent to prevent custodial parent from moving.
2006-11-03 04:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by lookingfor_mrrightnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it does not state in your divorce papers that you can not move outta state... there should not be a problem. Now your ex can take you back to court and have the judge decide that you will have to either pay for you to get them back to him every other weekend or get them back home.
Why would you take your children away from their father?
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2006-11-03 04:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Should not be a problem. Once you file the Notice of Relocation, they will tell you the next step.
2006-11-03 05:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to take your kids away from their father just because you want to start a new life with a new man?? That's very selfish of you. The kids get to see their dad every other weekend right now. After you move, what's it going to be...once, twice a year?
Put your kids first! They need their dad just as much as they need you.
2006-11-03 04:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋